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What would you do?

My baby daddy has a child from a previous relationship and I allow him to bring her to my house on his days with my kids because my kids aren’t allowed in his brother house where he’s living (his brother actually banned his niece and nephew from his house). So my ex’s daughter doesn’t know I have a baby monitor in m...

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Super vain but...

I finally have my rainbow baby and I'm so so grateful, but I'm in my late 30's and although I shouldn't care about my appearance..I kind of do. 🫠 He's four months old and is a very short napper no matter what I do. I choose what I have time for, which is food and a shower ! Before him, I always wore under eye…

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Clingy?

My baby is one year old now his birthday is October 5 and he won’t let me do anything I’m a first time mom of a boy. Everytime he sees he starts crying and reaching for me and if I’m in a room with him and and anybody else and he’s minding his own business having fun doesn’t even know I’m there if I start to leave h...

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MIL constantly pushing to have my son overnight

My LO is 14 months old but still breastfeeds and has always been a bad sleeper. We co-sleep and he still wakes multiple times at night, often with boob being the only thing that will get him back to sleep. I am lucky enough to be a SAHM at the moment, and rarely leave LO. Other than obviously with my partner, he’s o...

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Venting

I found out like yesterday that my husband likes his time away from me. I’m a loud Eastern European woman lol and he said I can be a little overbearing, but I just love him so much and I feel like it’s becoming one-sided. I know he loves me but hearing that really hurt me. I see the way my brother is with his girlfr...

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Is this normal?

Is it normal for my husband to make me feel bad for buying our child McDonald’s? My son is 2 1/2 and had McDonald’s for the first time yesterday. I didn’t get him any meat, it was literally just a cheeseburger without meat and some fries. And my husband has brought it up multiple times about how he feels like I just...

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Help!!

How do y’all cope with staying at home all the time. We only have one car and my fiancé works 12 hours a day so I can never leave the house. How do people do this I’ve been having such a hard time.

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How often do yall have sex, in your 30s, married, with multiples, and full time jobs.

Just wondering how often my peers be getting down, specifically in households like mine. I want to have sex more! But with each kid and dog came less time for US and more work for my husband. I feel disconnected from him and think if we took time at least every few days to “get closer” we would be happier and more t...

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Depressed maybe idrk

I’m 25 weeks with twins and I love them and can’t wait to be their mommy but at the same time I just want to not be pregnant anymore I don’t feel like my body was meant to handle this I could hardly handle my singleton pregnancy that had growth restriction and now my twins are in the 98th percentile which should mak...

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Advice

Can I get some advice? I have been struggling with the feeling of not doing enough, even though I am constantly cleaning and taking care of my baby to the point I am burned out. But my girl’s dad today decided to call me a good for nothing. And this week has already been very tough because I had to go under surgery,...

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Sahm duties

Sooo I love being a stay at home mom however I feel like literally alll the chores are up to me… Ie cooking Cleaning Laundry Bottle cleaning Toy cleaning Sleep training Planning what we will do that’s fun Meal preparation Getting everything ready when we go out Etc I feel like my husband takes advantage sometime...

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Skills lost?

I had to send my son to daycare due to both my husband and I needing to work. Prior to daycare (maybe like two weeks before),my son started rolling, got both sides down. Hes been in daycare for three weeks now, and hasn’t rolled since. I’ve asked the daycare if he’s rolled and they said no. I’m really concerned. Is...

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How would you best describe the definition of a SAHM?

In particular to explain to people that believe SAHMs should take care of the kids and the house 24/7 while the working partner literally just goes to work and relaxes when they are off, and only interacts with the kids if and when they want to.

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Nursery dispute

Currently 18 weeks, due in March 2025. My partner and I have discussed looking into starting changing the spare room into a nursery end of Jan/ feb. Today he’s decided he doesn’t want to and wants to keep the spare room for as long as possible in case ‘one of our mums wants to stay over in the early days of baby’. ...

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Burntout

I’m struggling with complete exhaustion, my LO is nearly 5 months and I feel like such a crap mum. I love him so so much but I’m drained mentally and physically. My bloods have been checked and suggested potentially hyperthyroidism but won’t do anything for another three months. I find the days getting harder and ha...

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Shy child in daycare

Please give me some hope. My child is pretty shy and comfortable with only small group. She just started day care this September and 3 years old now . This is her first day care period. We have webcam access and whenever we see she always sit idle in carpet and nobody seems to care . Sometimes she will be there for ...

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Marriage Ending?

Backstory: We have been together 18 years, married for 12. Over the course of our relationship there has been verbal, emotional and even physical abuse- for years. He has cheated 4 times that I know of, and yet I stayed and remained faithful. A few years ago while my dad was in the icu dying, he was cheating. Once I...

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Advice

I’m really having a hard time, I yelled at my child today and it I feel really guilty. This doesn’t ever happen I’m burnt out no help. I’m feel like I’m loosing it. Please advice

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How do i tell my MIL our parenting guidelines are different to her?

The message is long so in summary, my MIL is coming from a good place but some of things she wants to do i feel are unsafe/ go against rules we have set as a family. My partner says he will address it when the issue comes up/baby is here, where as i have explained the guidlines to my family already so the situation ...

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Anybody still resent their husband over something that happened a while ago?!

I feel like he purposefully tries to just mess up important moments for me For instance not getting a haircut before our newborn shoot and then getting it right after when his dad tells him Realizing day of my brothers wedding his suit doesnt fit and having to run to get a new one during my getting ready time Gos...

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