Girl I’m going thru this exact situation my husband got hurt at work and has been home for the last month and that’s all he does I literally packed a bag and left because I couldn’t take it anymore there’s obviously more to it but it’s genuinely because of these stupid ass games like why can’t they grow up and leave the gaming to the teenagers like they don’t have a wife and kids that want their attention. If you want your alone time then go be single with no family 🤷🏼♀️
Don't make them get rid of their games. That's their outlet. That's a good thing. There is a reason they are avoiding but you won't find out from us. Have a conversation where you welcome their honesty. Don't judge. Find out what is bothering him. Make the relationship fun again. We tend to get lost in routine and overwhelm the man. Start a conversation with, "Can we talk?" Not "We need to talk." Keep it short and sweet. "Things are feeling off. I notice you need more alone time, but I am feeling alone. Can we talk about why that is?"
@Kattie Norton it’s a whole pc 🤣 that’ll be a whole thing
@Larissa well it’s that or the marriage you have to pick what’s more important
@Chloe I don’t mind him gaming, I game sometimes too but it’s rare lol I just want to spend more time with him :/ my brother and his girlfriend are not thrilled with what I told them about my husband and him wanting to be away from me 🤣
There's nothing wrong with gaming, my partner is a gamer, but he also does want to spend time with me! If your relationship wasn't like this before then you definitely need to have a conversation about it. Are you one those people though that always has to fill silence? As I find that annoying lol. My partner will talk during movies and I have to tell him to stop lol
@Rebecca I’m not one of those lol I’m just happy to be involved 😂 regardless of what. He literally stays up most of the night gaming
Get ride of that video games it will help the so much me and my husband had to do it more then once