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Am i overreacting ?

Me and my husband are going through a separation right now due to a lot of things but his emotional cheating is on top of the list. I went no contact for 2 months after it happened again. He left by choice. Which he does a lot . he pops back up again of course apologizing. He came and stayed for about two weeks ...

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I need to rant about my unofficial MIL. She is pissing me off

She retired early a few months ago and now I think she is bored, she will not leave me alone. She’ll randomly turn up at my house, invite us over every weekend. She’s started coming over to do the washing. I don’t want her washing my underwear, fuck off!! I spoke to my partner about it, saying it’s too much, she con...

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Nursery app

My sons nursery have been absolutely shit in the last week with the app, hardly posting any pics etc. each time I ask its some issue with the system or wifi issues blah blah. Hes only been going for 3 weeks so I cant judge their credibility but its starting to piss me off😭 maybe I need to give them the benefit of…

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Toxic free household cleaners

Any recommendations?

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Am I over reacting?

So over the weekend I went shopping with my MIL and she was saying about buying a new stocking for her other grandson as the one he currently has isn't big enough what she's bought him.. so she said "oh the old one will go to...." On about my son, would anyone else be pissed off? Because why should my son get a hand...

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Not how I wanted things to end 🙁

Been bedsharing, breastfeeding and babywearing my toddlers whole life and now got no choice but to stop. Being admitted to hospital for at least a week due to jaundice and liver damage from gallbladder issues and will need surgery. My baby is nursed to sleep 99% of the time, I baby wear her for hours a day, and we b...

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Would you report them?

OK, so I I used to work at a childcare centre and there were issues; staff yelling at kids (for having accidents, eating their own food, eating centre food, wanting more food etc), staff kids getting treated SO differently, staff yelling at each other, staff swearing, staff being disrespectful to each other, kids no...

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Whose right?!

So my in laws always want to spend time with my little girl (6 months) which I have no problem with, they shower her with so much love and attention, spoil her a lot! So they want her to spend the day with them multiple times a week (3/4 full days) and I always say yeah and drop her off or go down with her, but my h...

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Am I the problem or is it him?

My bd has never been that helpful and I’ve always just got on with it but now I’m really starting to get fed up. So, in the week I do everything including night wakes, day time and even when he’s back from work I still do it all! He works so absolutely fine with that. But, over the weekend I’d like some help. On ...

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Toddler suddenly doesn’t want to go to nursery

My little girl is just over 2.5 years old, and has been going to nursery for 3 days a week since she was 1. She has always been happy to go in, but the last two sessions she’s been upset when I drop her off and I don’t know why. I’ve tried asking her but she doesn’t tell me why she is upset. She has been extra emo...

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Nursery refusal

My 3year old started nursery in august. Absolutely loved the settling in sessions for 2 weeks it was a fight at home time to get him home. Then he was ill and I had to keep him off for a couple of weeks and now every morning is a tear filled mess as he refuses to go in and I’m having to have him actually peeled from...

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Thumb tag accident!!! With a one year old ….

Today me and my bf moved the room around I found 2 thumb tags under the bed I knew there was 2 because i have a curtain that I have a thing that hold it on the wall … well anyways I threw them away in the trash….. I was with my one year old and my toddler I put them both in the room with the tv on and baby monitor ...

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Help

I feel so alone , my marriage seems to be in a bad spot and I just want to feel like I’m loved . We fight all the time and he pushes me away and I feel like he hates me . Am I being over dramatic ?

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Split from partner

Has anyone split from their partners since the baby has been born? I need to throw him out. We are so unhappy and argue so much I've just had enough. The thought of not having my baby a couple times a week kills me I don't want to be away from her 😭

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Am I being unreasonable?

Husband and I decided on divorce a couple of months ago and have been separated since. We are working through our finances before we go through the divorce process. We have 2 children together, 14 and 11, and my 21 year old stepson (my husband’s son) all live with me at our house. My husband and I have been amicable...

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How much does your husband/partner help with your children?

My partner has a demanding job and he leaves the house Monday-Friday between 6-6:30am and returns home between 7-7:30pm so he often doesn’t see our child during the week. He also works Saturdays from 7-3pm. I do all the morning and night routine and day care drop off/pick ups and work 4 days a week. I’m considering ...

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Not sure what to do next

My partner and I decided to separate last night, it’s been on the cards for a while to be honest. I don’t know where to begin now. I work full time but my wage won’t cover all the household bills and childcare and as it stands, I don’t think I can have that conversation with him as to whether he’s going to contribut...

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Aita???

So me and my man have a 7 month old and he keeps trying to “distract her” I’m guessing from crying by like throwing a swaddle on her over her head and ish like that and I’ve asked him multiple times nicely and calm to not do that bc of suffocation risk and so just now she’s crying and he couldn’t soothe her I said s...

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Nursery - unsettled

My nearly 1 year old has been at nursery for just under 3 weeks. He’s completely unsettled, refuses to eat there, barely sleeps if at all, sick, screams etc. I’m honestly at a loss. Do we move him to a different nursery, increase his time, reduce it? Does it get better? Anyone else had a similar experience? He curre...

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Husband not helping

I’m a first time mum whose struggling with breastfeeding and I’ve expressed my feelings to my husband and asked for his support. He’s had 5 weeks off work and has returned to work but has since slept every night downstairs so he can get a good sleep. That leaves me alone all night with the baby aswell as well as all...

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