Am i overreacting ?

Me and my husband are going through a separation right now due to a lot of things but his emotional cheating is on top of the list. I went no contact for 2 months after it happened again. He left by choice. Which he does a lot . he pops back up again of course apologizing. He came and stayed for about two weeks . We were getting close again but i told him basically how scared i was to try again because of the cheating. He left the same day which is fine but he has not texted me that he made it safe or even a good morning text ..im very annoyed by this b/c im a ALL or nothing person. I truly don’t know how to navigate this separation
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Just leave full stop, no taking back, no listening to excuses or apologies cause it’s all talk and he clearly can’t be emotionally mature enough to leave you be so it’s on you to put a stop to it. No point in hurting yourself more than he already is, respect yourself and leave while you’re still sane

Just be done. It’s not going to stop

He is just using u cuz ur convenient! Don’t fall for it. Love doesn’t work like this! he is showing time and time again that he doesn’t really want to be with u. Please don’t let him back in again, he will just keep taking whatever it is he needs from u as long as u allow him. Cheating is relationship deal breaker! He is a walking red flag & u need to free urself from him. I agree wit @Chanie u need to realize that his words don’t mean anything bt his actions do! U deserve better, please don’t be ALL in with someone who isn’t even half way in! He is literally half way out, so let him go! He is not worth ur sanity, ur energy or ur time!

You need to draw a line under it and stick to your guns. He doesn't respect you and there is no trust in the relationship. Therefore, there isn't a relationship left. Be clear with him and don't go back on your word.

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