Split from partner
Has anyone split from their partners since the baby has been born?
I need to throw him out. We are so unhappy and argue so much I've just had enough. The thought of not having my baby a couple times a week kills me I don't want to be away from her 😭
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No but I do know having a baby puts a lot of strain on relationships. Me and partner have been arguing so much and we sometimes feel unhappy. Do you think you could sit with partner to discuss it all maybe have a little space and work through the issues? Or is it definitely over.
@Marissa he would want her on his own he is a really good dad and I trust him with her I think it's just going to be hard. He will only have her during the day not nights till she's older
@Rachael we have tried talking so many times, I've suggested counselling which he's refused. I'm just deeply unhappy and I don't want my daughter growing up thinking this is what a relationship is. I've tried so many times but always ends up the same
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Is there some way you could come to an agreement that he comes to visit baby with you there while she’s still so young? Not in a way that you don’t trust him, in a way that is clear you feel anxious being away from her in general? Would he even want her on his own without your help? I feel like it’s less to do with him and more to do with your needs as a new mum