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5 days late

I’m 5 days late and hubby and I had sex last night and I’ve got a very small amount of spotting today.. I had a miscarriage start of last month also 😢.. any ideas?

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Finally conceived but just miscarried 💔

I was on this group a lot as we were TTC our second and got pregnant after 6 months of trying. Unfortunately, I just suffered a missed miscarriage at 13 weeks (baby stopped growing at 8 weeks). I’m absolutely heartbroken and would love To know if anyone has had similar? I’m going to take some time to heal but Ofcou...

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Failed surgical management miscarriage

I had surgery for a missed miscarriage 3 weeks ago and today I took a pregnancy test and it came back with a strong positive! I called EPU and I had to go in for another scan. They said I’ve got retained tissue and I can’t wait for it to pass naturally over the next 2 weeks or I can have medication to speed it up. ...

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How soon did you try/become pregnant again after miscarriage?

I know it’s personal just looking to hear some people’s experiences

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Torn between decisions

This was my first pregnancy, which is now considered a miscarriage… My doctor went over my options. I’m really not wanting to wait it out naturally because it’s like waiting for the inevitable and i don’t think my mind could handle that wait. For the Medication… my biggest concerns is 1 being that there’s a chance ...

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Periods after miscarriage

I had a MMC at the end of March and I’ve had my first period since, right on time 29 days after the MMC, I’m usually pretty regular, 29 day cycle. But I’m now on day 33 and I feel no sign of my period starting yet, have taken a test on Monday when I was a day late but was negative. I also haven’t had any pregnant sy...

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Miscarriage or normal?

Haven’t been to a doctor but if counting by my last period I’m about 8 weeks pregnant. About two weeks ago I experienced light bleeding of sorts it was dark and looked like old blood, it lasted about two days. Everything I looked up made me feel like it was implantation bleeding. Fast forward to today, two weeks lat...

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Thalassemia

I was told by my hematologist that i havw thalassemia, after having my son i experienced a great loss of blood and blood clots for about 3 Months in the beginning of the month i would have a very bloody “period”. 1 month after birth and every month for 3 months. Since December of 2022 I’ve been on the depo shot. Doe...

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Fear..

I’ve had 3 miscarriages and now I’m pregnant with my rainbow baby. I’m currently 9 weeks 2 days and I’ve had two positive reassurance scans that showed growth and a healthy heartbeat. Does the fear of something happening ever go away, I’m constantly analysing everything like when I wipe or a cramp, does this ever go...

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Migraine after miscarriage?

Is it normal to get migraines after a miscarriage? I keep getting then ever since I miscarried on Saturday.

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Anxious

How to not feel anxious when I have just found out that I'm pregnant after having 8 miscarriages I don't know how to stop feeling anxious 😳

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Baby No.2 ❤️

Is anyone else in a similar position or this happened to them… Basically I had 2 miscarriages then had my rainbow baby girl in December 2023 via C-section. I have just found out I’m pregnant (incognito because of being so early) my little girl is almost 6 months. Is this really bad for my body or the baby? Am ...

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Helping a friend going through a miscarriage?

My friend yesterday and today has gone through having a miscarriage I was there when she found out she was pregnant and yesterday seeing her in so much pain and today finding out for sure she had lost the baby there was no baby heartbeat how can I help a friend during these times I’m doing my best but I feel so hurt...

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Miscarriage…again

I think I am starting to miscarry.. spotting again, second time at the same gestation.. have a scan tomorrow to check it out

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HcG levels

Hi! I’m just looking for some good news. I’m 5 weeks, I found out on 05/22 and since then I’ve been taking a test every morning because I had a miscarriage is February so this helps my peace of mind. I attached a photo of 2 tests taken on different days, the line looks just as dark to me. I’m getting worried that I’...

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Question:

Hate that I’m in this group but have been reading and appreciate so many supportive ladies also going through this. I was 5w3d when I miscarried over this past weekend (chemical?). I started bleeding Saturday and the bleeding slowed today… only two days later. Is this considered a period and i should track two weeks...

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Trying again after misscarriage

Unfortunately I had a miscarriage and a D&C on Friday when did everyone start trying again? I’m terrified it’s going to happen again

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17 weeks Miscarriage!

Idk how it happened! I am 17 weeks, suddenly a high flow of water comes out from vagina. I went to the Emergency Room they told me this all the amniotic fluid, and the baby still have a good heartbeat till now, and we have to wait until the baby passes then do a normal delivery.. My mind is not working right how com...

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SCH - first trimester

Has anyone had an SCH? Is there a way to tell if it’s this vs a miscarriage?

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Placenta

I took my placenta home and now I really don’t know what to do with it. I have to admit I didn’t do my research on it at all. They asked me while I was lying in bed in pain so I just said yes. What did you guys do with your placenta? Also, they mentioned “proper disposal” so if I end up not doing anything with it ...

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