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Thoughts

If anyone ever had a miscarriage, how did you feel?

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Missed miscarriage

Does anyone know how common a missed miscarriage is? I hate to keep thinking about it but Iā€™ve had very mild symptoms my whole pregnancy and waiting for the 12 week scan is giving me anxiety! We had one at 6 weeks and there was a heartbeat and all looked good. Ive not had any bleeding or signs leading to miscarriage...

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What gestation did your miscarriage happen?

Hi guys, I am 6W5 and had a miscarriage in October at 6+5. I have read the chance of miscarriage decreases up until 12 weeks so was curious to when you experienced yours

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Pains

I had a miscarriage over the weekend and passed the baby on Monday. Today I have really bad pains I can only describe it like a pain right up my bum. Itā€™s worse when I sit down, it takes my breath away it hurts so much. Has anyone had anything similar or should I phone the EPU when they open tomorrow? Iā€™ve been giv...

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Warning! Sensitive image. Is this a miscarriage?

Apologies for the horrible photo! I went for a wee tonight and randomly passed this into the toilet. For context, Iā€™m just at the end of a withdrawal bleed on my 7 day break off the pill. So shouldnā€™t be pregnant but what else could it be other than pregnancy tissue? Am suffering extreme headaches and bloating / ...

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Missed miscarriage

Hey girls Anyone had symptoms of a missed miscarriage. Iā€™m not bleeding or anything but I donā€™t feel pregnant anymore and I donā€™t have a scan till next week. The anxiety is killing me.

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Miscarriage, Plan B, Pregnancy

Backstory, i got pregnant at the end of Feb and had a miscarriage when i was 6 weeks along (April). Iā€™ve had one regular period since then May 1-5 Now, i had unprotected sex twice (finished inside me) 1 or 2 days before my predicted ovulation date (use the Flo app). I took a Plan B the next morning and had some lig...

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Pregnant after miscarriage

Hey girls, I had a miscarriage on the 28th of January and it was my first pregnancy. Today, 10 dpo I found out weā€™re pregnant again. We are excited but also nervous of course. We live in the UK but currently in Italy visiting family. Here they easily give meds especially after a miscarriage to help with the pregna...

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Period?

After a miscarriage when should I get my first period? Itā€™s been 3 weeks since I stopped bleeding but unsure on when Mother Nature may turn up

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In Hospital

I had an Ectopic. Had to get it removed from the tube. I was full of blood. God was with me. I'm blessed to be alive. Will try again in a year.

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Worrying myself daft

So paranoid today šŸ˜© I hate that my symptoms are slowing down šŸ˜©šŸ˜¢ pregnancy after miscarriage is a mind fuck šŸ¤Æ

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Short cervix?! Help

Iā€™m so scared they just told me my cervix was short yesterday and Iā€™ve had 3 miscarriages 5 years ago so Iā€™m very concerned

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1yr since miscarriage & my current due date

Tomorrow, 5/17, will mark 1 year since I had my miscarriage. It was my first pregnancy. Tomorrow is also the due date of my current pregnancy. Baby is healthy and we are still awaiting her arrival. I have been struggling with the mixed emotions. Trying to remain present with my current miracle and appreciate the...

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Missed Miscarriage šŸ˜¢

Hi everyone, just found out two days ago that I had a missed miscarriageā€¦ And just got my pills today and took my very first dose. I have to take my second dose in eight hours. Does anybody have any advice on how to deal with something like this? Is the pain really as bad as people say?

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Anxious and scared

Pregnancy after a loss is definitely not for the faint hearted is it??šŸ«£ This is a successful FET after IVF following a miscarriage and an ectopic and I am on HIGH alert constantly!! Iā€™m currently 5+6 Iā€™ve had brown spotting which is how my miscarriage started and I have been on edge for the past 3 days! It stoppedā€¦

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Miscarriage

Did anyone try straight away after a miscarriage if so how long did you wait and was it successful?

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Overwhelmed!

Iā€™m around 14 weeks, I feel like I am so underprepared. I donā€™t know anything about pregnancy and donā€™t understand all the abbreviations on here! But the more I read the more I panic. Iā€™ve suffered 6 miscarriages and an ectopic rupture and Iā€™m just so nervous everyday that Iā€™ve lost the baby. Everything was perfect ...

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Missing periods?

Back story/ Before i was even pregnant I hardly ever had periods! Ever. I started having them when i was about 12 and they stopped randomly at the age of 16, I talked to many doctors and switched to different type of pills to try and re gain the period back occasionally i would spot here and there but I would never ...

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Miscarriage

How do you know youā€™re having a miscarriage?

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Miscarriage support

If you have ever miscarried or know someone who hasā€¦ what would you want/have wanted in a care package? Or what did you do that was helpful to that couple? I am doing a painting with the child added in but want to do a whole basket. Please help. Iā€™m really struggling with the loss and donā€™t want to do what I think ...

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