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Feeling like ive had enough

Does anyone else just get so wound up with wanting to get things done and your little one just wants to be with you/on you. Today I just feel like crying and screaming. LO is 15mths

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If u have ever resented ur husband a lot, how did u get over it? Can u get over it?

I have been emotionally abused for a few years and I wonder if I’ll be able to get over it or not. Please help

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Terrible Two’s

Anyone going through this/in the thick of it or been through this? Wow.

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Guilt

Does anyone else for guilty for feeling anxious, or negative? I have been feeling anxious for the past few days, I have been overthinking. Then I look at my baby, who is so beautiful and smiles at me. I feel soo shit for being this person, why can’t I just be happy and not experience these feelings. I feel so guilty...

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Others holding toddler

If you had only met a friends toddler the once and kept putting out your hands to them but they didn't want to go to you and the mum had said that she likes interacting with others but doesn't really like being held..would you keep persisting? My husbands friends wife who just met our 15 month old for the first time...

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Postpartum anxiety

Hi all, I suffer really badly with postpartum anxiety and I find it gets triggered alot by being home alone or out and about alone with little one, if any of you suffered or are suffering with postpartum anxiety I would appreciate any tricks you found helped as I've tried so many things and it just feels never endin...

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Narcissistic Mother

I don’t know where to start. I have a terrible relationship with my mother. It goes back to my childhood. I’m an only child and my mother has always been very “protective” is what I used to say but now that I’m an adult I see that she’s just controlling. My father passed away 16 years ago and he was the only one tha...

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In Laws Crossing Boundaries

My mother in law is consistently not listening to me when I say how bad my anxiety is. My baby turns 4 months on the 25th and although he has pretty good head control it freaks me out. I even support my two year olds head when lying her down so she doesn’t bump it. Well I’ve told her numerous times make sure your su...

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Braxton Hicks

I’m 32 weeks and I haven’t experienced any Braxton Hicks contractions. Am I just blessed or should I be concerned? I feel my baby move around a lot. Just no pain and I’m not complaining I just seem like everyone else is talking about experiencing this at 28 weeks and on .

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Separation anxiety?

My mother in law is holding my baby and it’s been an hour and I don’t wanna be mean but holy molly my heart is gonna beat out my chest I want my baby back 😭

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Postpartum Anxiety

Anyone else dealing with PPA? I got prescribed sertraline (Zoloft) took me about a week to actually start taking it lol now I'm supposed to up the dosage but I haven't done that yet either. I'm just hating how intense my anxiety has gotten. Burning heat sensations up my neck, through my mouth and torso, heart palpat...

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Hair loss

Has anyone cracked the code of hair loss in mothers? I had my baby 2 years ago and I am thinking that a huge cut is my only solution at this point. I have thin curly hair past my shoulders and I have tried it all. I am back taking prenatal vitamins hoping it will help. I have reduced heat and started doing bf natura...

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Cry everytime since birth

Hiii!! Help me please My daughter cry everytime i think she get bored of things easily. I am the only one who spend 24 hour with me. I think she also get bored of me. She has very less attention spain, i have to sit with her to play and then only she can engage in the toys for just 10-15 maximum. She is very crank...

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How do you know when it’s over or just going through rough time?

So my husband and I have been together for over 11 years since we were 17 and married for 5. We have lived in our own home for 4 years and just recently moved back in (temporarily) back with my parents with our daughter. So, our marriage didn’t have a smooth beginning and we actually had endured a lot of issues in t...

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Braxton Hicks…

I’ve been getting what feels like period cramps which my midwife told me are likely to be Braxton Hicks. I’m 35 weeks today, so obviously close to baby’s due date, but not quite close enough… How long after Braxton Hicks did everyone go into labour? I’m adamant I’m having a November baby😂

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PP hair loss

Hello, can someone give me advice on Post partum hair loss? I am now bald on onside of my head and I love my hair 😥

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Postpartum hair loss

I have just washed my hair and look at all that loss!! I’m suprised I’m not bald at this point 😭😭😭

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Resentment.

I'm so sick of being accused of the little things my SD does for instance, she used the remote today and didn't put it back where it should be and it's now missing. My husband straight up came and asked me where the remote was and I told him I don't know, he went ahead and said who else has it if it's not me and m...

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Emotions

I am posting because I really don’t feel like I have a support system and I have a lot going on. But my baby daddy is no longer the man I thought he was and I feel talking to him is no good and I’m struggling knowing most likely my baby will grow up with seperated parents and I’m struggling mentally because of him.

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Anxiety around going out

Our baby has always been hard work in the pram and the car. She has never been able to just sit there for longer than 30 minutes or so. I dread going out places unless it is somewhere she can go off and play as she will just cry and we'll have to carry her but then she wants to go down etc, just a vicious circle. I ...

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