Feeling like ive had enough

I've been there.

Been there for about the first 4 months. Gosh, is it really still at the 15 month stage. Are they walking? What do they do for entertainment?

Hey Sarah! I totally get that feeling of wanting to get stuff done but your little one just wants to be with you all the time. It can be overwhelming sometimes, especially when you have a lot on your plate. It's okay to feel frustrated and overwhelmed. Maybe try to involve your little one in some of the tasks if possible, or even just take a short break to spend some quality time together. Hang in there, you're doing great!

My comment might be too harsh but Yes 👍 well my partner is not the most helpful so in return I don’t bother cooking when I’m overwhelmed . I literally have adapted the idgaf mentally at this point and just looking out for me and baby. I decided to cook mon-wed, thrus we have left overs. Fri and sat we order in and sun is everyone fend for themselves or husband cooks

Personally for me I learned that in order for me to be happy with my partner he needs to be an equal partner n team player. 1 be loving and emotionally nurturing to me n baby 2 provide financially if I’m staying at home to care for child or vise versa if he stays home . (This is personal but I do not wanna work until baby is 18m or while I’m pregnant unless I really have to ,I will part time remote) 3 he needs to be an adult and pick up after himself and have chores around the house ( maybe not daily chores but some that he could do every other week) also cook at least once per week 4 he has to parent when he’s off work . Must be able to do everything I can with baby other than breastfeeding. If I’m rested he deff won’t have to do much around the house or with kid but thats hard to come by during pregnancy and at least the first year of postpartum

@Shannon thank you