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Frustrated and over it.

After 4 months postpartum finally hit and im over everything and everyone around me. Ive been a SAHM since baby was born, and was home during my pregnancy due to HG. Partner went back to 1 month after baby was born. However, its now at a point where my postpartum feels like its at its peak and partner is now also de...

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37 weeks pregnant and partner irritating the s### out of me…

Any free time he just sits on his computer playing games… if he’s on a late shift he’s playing it all morning… if he’s on an early shift he’s straight home onto it! He says is there anything you want to do when I moan but there isn’t… idk if I’m being over dramatic or what… any advice 🤦‍♀️

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No friends

I’ve been a mum to my beautiful boy for almost 2 years now, and I don’t have a single mum friend. I’m pregnant with my second, and I just feel so lonely. I have tried so hard to make friends, I’ve been the classes, I’ve messaged mums on here but I’m getting no where, I just get ghosted😞 I know I can be a socially…

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Lesbian friends

Is it just me or is it harder to make friends nowadays?

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Is this cheating? How should I handle it?

I’m really conflicted and don’t know what to do. My bf messaged a random woman replying to her story of a selfie saying “nice!😎” when I asked him who the woman was he said he doesn’t know who she is and was being “thirsty” and looking for attention. He down plays it and says “so you’re gonna get mad over a message…

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Says he’s an empath but maybe a narcissist?

Says he’s an empath so when people are in bad moods he takes on all the negative feelings and then he’s in a bad mood but his bad mood then takes precedence over the original person bad mood

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Help

I've just found out we're pregnant again. I have a friend who has had recurrent miscarriages and currently isn't trying again until May, how do I tell her I'm pregnant. I meet her on a solo basis for dinner once a month or do I message her. I don't know which would be best, I don't want to make her feel awkward by t...

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Anyone else get their gallbladder out!!

I NEED coffee!!!!!! When can I have it? It’s day 2 for me

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WhatsApp groupchat🤞🏼

Anyone know if there’s a WhatsApp group chat for all mummas due in Jan?🫶🏼

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Am I being manipulated?

Today my husband lashed out and said I’m emotionally controlling, because I’ve checked his phone a few times. He said I don’t give him any privacy. I have checked his phone on a few occasions, always for a reason. Please allow me to explain. 1) I organised a babysitter, got ready and was by the door at the agree...

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Counseling / therapy

So up to this point I have been objectively against therapy due to past trauma with it. I am having issue with my husband and I know he won’t do counseling but I think personally I need it. Just to have someone to listen to me or give advice I guess… i have no friends or family I can talk to about what’s going on ...

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Would you pay for a monthly Mum meet up?

If there was a local company that organised a monthly brunch meet up session for new mums, mums to be, and mums of older children would you pay to attend. You’d get a goodie bag, an hour or so to relax and get to know other parents, toys for the children. There would be other hands available so you can drink your c...

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Husband maybe cheating

I keep finding condoms in my husband’s bag I’m not sure if he’s cheating or what I can’t face him because I am dependent on him financially and have kids with him and not sure what to do please advice

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Looking for a bestie daily texting friend

Hello! I’m Tayah I’m 25 and have a 13 month old daughter. I have a super hard time making friends. Would love to have someone that would chat daily and just be my texting buddy and be besties! I love to craft, read, and be outside. I’ve been in NWA for 2 years (: I’m learning to love cooking. And baking. I love C...

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Moving to Philly

Hiii! 💝 27 yo FTM SAHW I have a 1 month old baby boy and my husband is being relocated for work. We will be in Philly in 3 weeks. Coming from California and driving the whole way. Any good info to know about the city? Anyone wanna be friends? We will be all alone, away from family. So excited but so nervous!

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We want to meet our baby girl already!!!!

Expecting my baby girl November 21st…I can’t believe soon I will officially become a mother . Anybody on here that’s close to giving birth or has a similar due date & wants to chat …feel free to message me . It can get pretty lonely at times . Just waiting to meet my baby already.

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Child support

Does your partner have to pay child support ? If so how much ? I can’t help but be ticked off that my husband and I work so hard to advance in our careers and as soon as he gets an increase , bm will do anything to try and modify /increase child support . I’m not against him financially support in since it’s his kid...

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Would he still get custody?

My BD hasnt been in my sons (7 months) life since he was born. Theres proof of that. He lives in another state. He’s not on the birth certificate either. Hes constantly threatening me “i’m gonna take him away from you”. I have proof of that as well. He doesnt try, he had so many chances to move so he can see my son ...

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mom friend needed!

i’m a SAHM to my babyboy who is currently 7 weeks old! i’m looking for a mom friend that i can chat, call, and facetime with. i’m shy at first so i understand if you’re the same way! we can build our bond and connection day by day🩵 i have my phone number, whatsapp, instagram, and facebook just message me on here…

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mom friend to call, chat, and facetime? just message me your number

i’m a SAHM to my babyboy who is currently 7 weeks old! i’m looking for a mom friend that i can chat, call, and facetime with. i’m shy at first so i understand if you’re the same way! we can build our bond and connection day by day🩵 i have my phone number, whatsapp, instagram, and facebook just message me on here…

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