Husband maybe cheating

What will he do if you confront him?

@Violeta💕 if I do it means I have to move on and leave because if i stay that mean I accept it and he will just insult me and keep doing it also I won’t be treating him the same if I do confront him

What are you going to do? Do you accept it?

Well....erm...i can't think of any legitimate reason to have condoms in his bag. So yeah let's say he's cheating. Can you respect yourself if you just pretend you don't know? I doubt it Leaving is hard but you should make a plan to leave. You need to decide How you'll split custody Where you'll live Whether you'll work and if so, what the childcare arrangements will be

I think you already know. If you’re not both using them then some else is. If I were you I’d start being more independent, keep a watchful eye and I honestly wouldn’t say anything until I’m prepared to leave if it should come to that.

@Keisha yea exactly what I been thinking to do even though that I love him and I wanted our small family to last but he destroyed it

@Ella I need to stand on my feet first I have a health issue that kind preventing me from working I also have kids who are younger than five years old so for sure I need to be independent first and then confront him before making that step isn’t easy for me to wait longer than this but it is what it is I really wanted our little family to last toghther but he destroyed this

@Violeta💕 I need to stand on my feet first I have a health issue that kind preventing me from working I also have kids who are younger than five years old so for sure I need to be independent first and then confront him before making that step isn’t easy for me to wait longer than this but it is what it is I really wanted our little family to last toghther but he destroyed this

That's fine. You don't have to walk out the door today. You can bide your time, save money, make a plan. Do you have any family you could move in with? I suppose, the alternative is, some couples come back from cheating. You confront him, he breaks down, admits it was a mistake, apologises, promises to never do it again, couples therapy. It is possible. But it depends if you would be willing to.

I'm sorry. I can see that you are in pain. Hang in there, it's not easy but maybe come up with a plan. Sounds like half of you wants to stay and the other half wants to walk away. Choose what's right for your family. You won't know unless you ask, but it's not a good sign if he's carrying them around(condoms). If you choose to stay maybe couples therapy or put your foot down. If you walk away have a plan. Best of luck to you, and keep your head up.