Community Posts, Tips & Support on Mental Health

I’m 38w living in my mom’s place. I’m 23 single baby’s father is no help. I can’t secure housing of my own the market is trash my credit isn’t good because of student loans. They say I make too much for income based but I’m barely making anything and I don’t have maternity leave bc my job is seasonal. I have no frie...

I know I have to leave, I can’t keep living like this. I feel like I’m the one breaking the family apart, even though I know my kids deserve better. It’s just so freaking hard and heartbreaking to leave. I’m not able to imagine the life that comes as a single mom.

I just can’t do it. My life has lost its previous spark, I feel drained, I feel tired, I feel lost, lonely, trapped, I want to scream, everything is a chore, Groundhog Day. I just want to get off this train now.

To those who are DRIVEN, how do you do it? What motivates you? I feel so...meh... I'm on maternity leave (ending soon 😭) but I work in domiciliary care. I should point out that I HATE the concept of work & feel like I'm slaving my life away. But I'm just curious cuz I see a lot of people who are driven & wonder…

Just feeling lonely and hate putting all my issues on my man. Just wish I could make some friends or have someone I can talk to and they not have a motive. Sorry trauma from my exes.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m so excited to meet my second daughter in a couple of weeks….. But I miss myself so much… I’ve put on so much weight, I haven’t had the confidence to be intimate with my partner for about 6 months, I barely wear makeup anymore because I can’t be bothered….. I just miss wearing what I want, fe...

Me and my husband have separated. We tried for 4 long hard years before deciding this is the best way to go. We have 2 children together and the separation isn’t amicable right now. Any tips for coping in the early days? I’m dreading my first weekend without my children. I hate having to see my husband. Having to ...

Anyone else when they’re on their own in the house get lonely, bored, miss their old life and freedom and get upset :( ?

Anyone else a single mam and find the nights very tough. I've done all nights on my own anyway but when it's a rough night I get myself worked up. I split with my ex when son was 5 months due to verbal and emotional abuse. My son has been very unsettled for couple weeks and I am worn out

It’s Father’s Day and I am cute crying in the kitchen I feel so alone and I keep on reaching out to my husband and he just seen so far away I just wish I could stop crying but I can’t

How is everyone coping with constant exhaustion🥲

Im 25 with a 1 year old and almost every person I talk to say that it’s selfish of me to say I don’t want to have anymore kids because they need to be around other children and it’s not fair to them to be alone. Honestly I could not really care because my pregnancy was shit and I never want to do that again also I’m...

How do people deal with panic attacks I have health anxiety and at the moment anything and everything is setting it off I have Crohn’s disease witch don’t help but I’m so fed up of feeling g anxious about my health and that something bad is going to happen to me 😔

I don’t particularly miss anything about my old life maybe just the freedom? Idk I see all these posts with people obsessed with their child and I just don’t feel that way?

I’m so depressed I had to move from New York to Rhode Island and it’s horrible. I miss living in New York so much, but our rent was getting so expensive we thought it was going to be better somewhere else but I can’t adapt to living here it’s sad and grey people are very rude food has no seasoning,kids are incredibl...

Just having a mental block and struggling with almost everything right now😥 feel like I can’t even talk to anyone about it 😞

Since becoming a single parent, I don’t see me and my son having a family. I don’t see myself with anyone in the future or even having more kids. I just feel like it’s gonna be me & my son for the rest of mine & his life. I don’t have hope for me with meeting anyone or having a family unit. Does anyone else feel li...

Don’t judge but I’m bored of my relationship even though I have an amazing husband. I’ve been married since 21 and now I’m 31 and I feel like I want to talk a break to live alone for a while. I do have two young kids and if I stop him from seeing them everyday then that’s unfair and I can’t stop seeing them. My kids...

Has anyone else experienced this as a first time mom? I need someone to talk

This morning, I am filled with mixed feelings as I feel completely left out and behind my friends. I used to have a group of friends before I got pregnant. I didn't tell anyone until I was seven months along, but at least I eventually did. Since then, I’ve tried to keep them in the loop, but it seems they’ve moved ...