FOMO / boredom

FYI this is brand new for me, baby is only just over 4 weeks old. X

I do, it's just been my and my girl since she was born and have very little help. I've been back to waterpolo training once. I used to train 3-5times per week. I've now lost my bar job which i often used a socialising without drinking kind of thing as the cost of childcare (if I could even get any) is more expensive that the pay and I don't really see anyone, if we make plans they often get cancelled. It does get so lonely but at the same time I'm really enjoying the mum life I'm building for myself by going to groups and classes. I never in a million years thought I'd be that kind of mum but I am now and I'm embracing it and trying my best to create a new different and wholesome life for me and my daughter 😊 (she's 5 months btw)

@Chiara sorry to hear you have very little help :( I couldn’t do this completely alone, I have help from family and friends, when I first came out of hospital I was so sleep deprived because towards end of pregnancy I had a condition and could never for the life of me sleep, then I was in hospital for like a week because I went into be induced and it failed and then had to stay in for 3 days after as I was on antibiotics. So when I came out of hospital with the baby, I was already sleep deprived to f**k and if it wasn’t for support I’d have gone mad or fallen asleep with the baby or something :(( so I can’t even fathom how it was for you :( that’s good about the baby groups, have you made friends there? I’ll start taking him to groups at some point