I’m bored….
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The grass isn’t always greener. Communication & start dating each other again. We are living in an age of so much instant gratification that people are constantly seeking more/better. Are you willing to lose your husband permanently because of some boredom?
See we both agreed that family will only take up 70% of our happiness. The other 15% comes from friends and the last 15% comes from hobbies. I don’t want him to rely on me 100% for his happiness and I don’t either. So by you being “bored” maybe you just need something in your life that’s yours alone- out of marriage. That’s work (if you work), friends, and maybe find a hobby. We both have friends, we both have hobbies but for family sake, (the 70%) we do lots of date nights, double dates and family days out. To keep dating and to keep our family life exciting and new and not mundane or boring. We still flirt and we still sext…19yrs and 3 kids later. I recommend a hobby and through that you will find friends.
Noooo the grass is not greener on the other side. How about you speak to ur partner about this, try therapy togeda and possibly book a 1 month vacation free of Kids . This may just bring back the spark. Ure bored because of same routine everyday. U just need something different to ignite both of u spark back. Ur Abuela or relative could help take care of them. How about you consider this🙏
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I think relationships have a “boring stage”. It’s a sense of comfortability. I heard the saying love is like gum. When you first chew it it’s soft and delicious but eventually gets hard. But if you keep chewing it’ll soften again. You just might be in the hard gum stage
Maybe try working on your current relationship? It’s probably just become stagnant due to busy lifestyle etc? X