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Brown Discharge at 7w

I’ve had two moments this weekend that I’ve noticed brown discharge. I hit 7 weeks on Friday and having experienced a miscarriage in April, I’m feeling a little on edge. Is this normal? I don’t see my OBGYN for the first scan until October 1st so the waiting game has me quite uncomfortable. I’m so scared of miscarry...

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Pregnancy after a loss

I’m sorry if this question is triggering for anyone. I’ve just suffered my first miscarriage on the first pregnancy. It’s a lot to come to terms with but we want to try again straight away (when I’m able). For anyone who’s had the same situation, how long did it take you to fall pregnant again afterwards?

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Any advice after recurrent miscarriage

I’ve had two miscarriages now since June one at 9 weeks and one at 5 weeks in September. I just don’t know where to go from here. What do I do? When I contact the doctors they are saying I have to wait for 3 miscarriages in order to get checked out. But I really want to know what to do next before another miscarriag...

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Miscarriage Vent - TW

I went through a miscarriage yesterday, my 3rd one. It was a missed miscarriage, and I was given medication to speed up the process. I only needed the first dose before it started working. My partner was at work, I was home alone with our 6 month old baby. Ive had miscarriages before so assumed I’d be okay to mana...

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Missed Miscarriage

How long did you test positive for before your miscarriage actually happened ? I've been told I'm likely going to miscarry but nothing has happened yet and I'm still testing positive Have another scan coming up to confirm things

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Does anyone know how common mmc is?

Does anyone know how common it is to have a missed miscarriage? I’m pregnant but terrified of losing the baby due to previous missed miscarriage. Everyone keeps telling me “as long as you’re not bleeding then you’re fine”. Is that true? Is it true that missed miscarriages are rarer than ‘normal’ miscarriages?

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Guilt hitting hard today

This might be long, need to get it off my chest, it really just hit me today how lucky we got. We had our son last March 2023. After a miscarriage and years of TTC, I resigned myself that it would just be me and my husband. When I found out I was actually, finally pregnant with no intervention, my first thought was...

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Miscarriage or continued pregnancy?

I have two sons and gave birth to my youngest in May. I had a normal period in June but was late in July so tested. I had 3 positive tests so booked in to see a midwife. Before I could have the appointment I started bleeding, I had no cramping but it was a fair amount of blood. Midwife booked me in for a scan to s...

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Period after Miscarriage

I had a miscarriage 4 weeks ago at 5 weeks pregnant. I was due on my period Sunday (CD25) which is my usual cycle. I started light pink spotting CD27 which lasted a day. I am now CD29 and the spotting has stopped and no sign of my period. I thought it might have been implantation bleeding but I have tested twice and...

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Pregnancy after a miscarriage

I had a miscarriage back in may and now I’m unexpectedly pregnancy again. I’m scared it may happen again. No reason specifically just ptsd I guess. How’d you cope with pregnancy after your miscarriage?

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6 week miscarriage - how long will it last?

I’m five days into a miscarriage that started at 5w6d and it’s got lighter but cramps have got worse. Just wondering what’s going to happen next. Nothing could be seen on the ultrasound when it started (PUL pregnancy of unknown location, might have been too early or might have already passed). If anyone miscarried a...

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Ovulation after miscarriage question…

I’ve read that you can ovulate as soon as two weeks after a miscarriage, but does that mean two weeks from the start (like a period) or two weeks after its finished?

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Pregnant after 3 Losses

I have a toddler nearly 2. 3 miscarriages and now I’m pregnant again. My last miscarriage was missed. I’m now being looked after by the recurrent miscarriage clinic and have extra scans in the first trimester. I had a scan at 6 weeks and everything looked fine. I’m at 8 weeks today and have another scan next wee...

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Conceiving

Has anyone conceived shortly after a chemical pregnancy/miscarriage?

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Miscarraiges

We had a chemical back in May then we fell pregnant end of June and unfortunately we suffered another miscarraige being a missed miscarraige at 9 weeks baby stopped growing at 7+6 (a day after seeing their little heartbeat beating strong and healthy) so it came as a complete shock and broke us my question is can you...

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Missed Miscarriage

Hello so sad to be writing this and reading some of your story's. I've had a suspected missed Miscarriage at my 8 week scan They aren't sure how far along the baby actually is but there is a pregnancy there yolk sac and I think she mentioned the pole but no heartbeat I've to back again on Monday to confirm it ...

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How soon after MC did you fall pregnant?

Just wondering how soon it took people to fall pregnant after your miscarriage had finished?? It has been 2.3 weeks since my miscarriage started and 8 days since I stopped bleeding and I think I might be ovulating

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Nerves

So I’ve had some spotting/bleeding with this pregnancy so far, I called my doctor to ask about it and they booked me an ultrasound for Wednesday at 9am. I went to the ER on the 4th and it looked like the photo in the comments (not mine taken from google) they said there was no heartbeat, but there was a fetal pole, ...

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Help 😫

Can’t understand why I feel the way that I do, I had a miscarriage back in March at 6 weeks, I’m now pregnant again and I’m 7 weeks but I just don’t feel happy or excited, just having just a negative outlook on everything thinking no-one is happy for me (even though I know people are) living situation etc isn’t the ...

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20 week miscarriage

We have recently experienced a late miscarriage with our first baby, at our 20 weeks scan we learnt our baby boy had no heartbeat and gave birth a day later. He was showing signs of Edward’s syndrome (the only test we didn’t manage to have due to position of baby at the 12 weeks scan). It’s the most painful experien...

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