Community Posts, Tips & Support on Pregnancy Loss

I can’t help but continue to ask myself the question why me. Why’d this have to happen to me. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone but why me. My sister has 6 children never once had a miscarriage other has two never had one either. I get there’s nothing I could’ve done but life has been so horrible to me lately and this is...

Hiya I’m 18 as from the title I’m absolutely terrible about birth and it’s constantly on my mind I’ve gone through one miscarriage and it’s shaken me about birth any advice for birth and how to make things better during birth

Please excuse the spicy topic but I need some advise/reassurance and hear others experiences. I had a miscarriage back in Jan and as fair as miscarriages go, it was pretty straightforward. Sex afterward has been somewhat more difficult as I was stressed and my husband was stressed and we were just desperate to conce...

Hi All, On Thursday I had a surgery for my missed miscarriage and it's been 4 days since and im Dealing with random sharp pains in my lower part of my stomach. Is this normal!?

On May 9, 2024, I walked in the my dr appointment like I have done for the past 4 times. Happy and in love with my baby boy. We did a 3d ultra sound everything looked normal until we did the scans of the head. My dr walked in right in the middle of the pictures, he told my mom, my husband and I what our baby had it ...

I have been spotting very minimal amounts since Wednesday, today it has increased and most times I wipe. I’m utterly devastated and I have a scan booked for tomorrow. My first miscarriage at 12 weeks was so intense I’m terrified of what is to come this time and can’t believe it’s happening again. How did you come to...

This was my rainbow baby, so I thought..I've been trying for 12 y. My husband and I struggle a lot with unexplained infertility. I was in depression in 2017. We got separated in 2020 but was still seeing each other from time to time and suddenly I got pregnant naturally. However, it ended up in an ectopic pregnancy...

Had an early miscarriage at 6 weeks in March (our first pregnancy and first month of TTC) and have been TTC since then; two cycles unsuccessful and just starting to feel worried and overwhelmed. I track via OPKs and we have sex every other day in the week leading up to ovulation, around ovulation and after, so we’re...

I’m currently cycle 2 after miscarriage.. the first cycle I struggled to find a peak. Does this look like peak the last one I took? Or shall I do another before bed/in morning?

Hey Everyone, So I just wanted to post about infertility and there being hope at the end of the tunnel. So, for the last two years, we've been struggling to keep a pregnancy. My first pregnancy since having my son was in March of last year. I didn't go past five weeks before I miscarried. I then had another pregna...

New to the group and I was just scrolling and noticed women talking about passing tissue and sacs. What should I be seeing at around 6/7 weeks? I had super bad cramping, bright red blood and lots of it. Then thick stringy chunks with what looked like a small worm when I wiped. I had no idea we can see tissue and sa...

Within time frame. So scared as lots of miscarriage 😢

Desperate to try again

Last night I finally tested positive (and then again this morning to be sure!) after having a miscarriage almost exactly 1 year ago. My husband and I are over the moon ❤️🌈 My periods are super irregular, my last one was 4 months ago, so I have no idea how to date it, but right now I don’t care, I’m just riding the…

What’s the risk of miscarriage after 7 weeks and seeing heartbeat twice? 🥰

I had Right tube removal surgery last week due to ectopic pregnancy, the hospital told me to take a pregnancy test in 3 weeks - I’ve taken one today and it’s negative , I’m grateful in a weird way as hoping my cycle starts to go back to normal My question is , how did your cycles vary after ectopic? I had an exactl...

So has miscarriage 19th October 2023 then another one on 19th Feb that was surgery Not had period since I had positive test on the 11th April but started. Bleed light for 4 days and got told I was miscarriage again but not period since don’t a test yesterday it was digital and said NOT PREGNANT BUT DONE THIS ONE AN...

💔 Just found out my friend has miscarried again, and I’m feeling so heart broken for her, but I have no idea what the right approach is towards her. I am 20 weeks pregnant myself and just feel like I am rubbing my bump in her face. She has kept this last pregnancy quiet, obviously through worry/fear, and now the…

Hello Ladies, I'm new to the group. I'm currently five weeks pregnant and have been hoping for this pregnancy for two years. I'm praying for a sticky baby. I've had six losses in the span of two years. I am supposed to have an HCG test tomorrow to verify it. My due date is supposed to be Jan 8th, but I was told I mi...

So we had a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks, we had the medicine to help things move on, I was quiet poorly after it but I’m finally on the mend, the bleeding has stopped and I’ve just finished my antibiotics and had the negative pregnancy test too. My question is do you think it’s okay to start trying again? We’re bo...