Anxious and scared

Pregnancy after a loss is definitely not for the faint hearted is it??šŸ«£ This is a successful FET after IVF following a miscarriage and an ectopic and I am on HIGH alert constantly!! Iā€™m currently 5+6 Iā€™ve had brown spotting which is how my miscarriage started and I have been on edge for the past 3 days! It stopped Monday and has made another appearance tonight, I donā€™t think I can copešŸ«£
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Iā€™m so sorry youā€™re going through this. Pregnancy after loss is no joke for sure. Iā€™d love to say it gets easier but sadly it doesnā€™t. Are you able to contact your clinic about the spotting? I know they may not do a scan so soon but they may be able to offer a hcg test which gave me reassurance x

Definitely isnā€™t easy, I feel like Iā€™m waiting for something to go wrong and wondering if Iā€™m ever going to enjoy been pregnant?šŸ™ƒ Iā€™ve been in contact with them and they said they arenā€™t able to give any actual reassurance because it could be a number of things, weā€™ve booked a private scan for a little bit of reassurance so hopefully that helps! I didnā€™t think of asking for my HCG to be checked, I have been testing daily and my tests seem to still be extremely strong so taking that as a positive sign xx

Itā€™s really tough but all you can do is wait it out if your doctor wonā€™t do a scan. Iā€™m pregnant now after a miscarriage and I had way heavier bleeding at 6-7 weeks due to a SCH than I had with a miscarriage. 23 weeks now and everything is looking good so far šŸ¤ž My point is, stay strong and donā€™t assume the worst! Once you get into 2nd trimester the stress gets much better.

I'm sorry, I know it can be so stressful and fill you up with anxiety and dread when you want nothing more than to enjoy the life growing inside you. I had spotting off and on that turned into a miscarriage but I also had the same amount of spotting and had a healthy pregnancy and gave birth to a son who is 2 weeks old. I really hope for the best for you šŸ€šŸ™šŸ¤ž

I've suffered 2 miscarriages 1 in Sept 2022 and 1 in feb 2023, I have now fell pregnant again (while taking the pill again) I'm 7 weeks 1 day and I can't enjoy my pregnancy at all. Every little niggle or pain I'm panicking. My husband is so excited and keeps rubbing my stomach and I feel awful when he does it šŸ˜”. I just feel like if I get excited my heart will be broken again.

Me too mama Iā€™m 5-6 weeks and Iā€™ve been brown spotting then blood then brown spotting and Iā€™ve been so scared too plus thatā€™s how I lost my previous pregnancy too I had a drop of brown blood then brown spotting. Iā€™m praying this new pregnancy will stick stick stick with me

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