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Hcg

I passed a large clot on Tuesday. I’ve tested to see if my hcg is dropping but it doesn’t seem to be, could this mean that I’m not having a miscarriage? I have an ultrasound apppintment next Tuesday. Im just feeling very anxious 😞

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2ww

How does everyone cope with the 2ww following a loss? Is it worse ? Just ovulated so it feels like the next 2 weeks are going to be more brutal than before. Anyone else?

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Stalled Miscarriage?

I’m curious if anyone has gone through what I’m going through now. I have been actively bleeding since the 20th like a period. A couple days before that started my OB said she believed this would be another miscarriage as I was measuring behind and the sac looked abnormal. No heartbeat. I went in yesterday to confi...

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2 weeks post D&C now TTC

Hello ladies, Really hoping I can get some advice. I sadly had a miscarriage and had to have a D&C 2 weeks ago. My husband and I are now desperate to try again and from what I have been told and read, we can start TTC again. I have not had a regular period since (I have just been spotting and besides 1-2 days of f...

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Pregnancy after miscarriage

Hi I had a miscarriage on the 23 April this year I’ve then had my period and found out today I’m pregnant I don’t know how to feel or what to do. Any advice for pregnancy after a miscarriage? Tyia

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Feeling lost

Hi! I am currently on month 11 of trying to conceive after miscarriage and I starting to lose hope. I am 35 years old which puts me in the “geriatric” pregnancy category. I had a successful pregnancy almost 3 years ago now with my son after 2 months of trying. I am starting to resent my body and really starting to l...

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Large clot

I passed a large clot and some blood yesterday, I’m supposed to be 6 weeks today. Am I supposed to be bleeding if it’s a miscarriage??

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Failed embryo transfer

Yesterday I got some bleeding that initially I was hoping to be the implantation, but it proved to be my period :-( I did a pregnancy test this morning and it was negative I was so hopeful that I would be pregnant as my smell was developed and I felt nauseous, but apparently I was wrong and now I am super sad and ca...

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Telling my gf I’m pregnant after she miscarried 💔

So I’m in my early weeks of pregnancy, this will be my second baby and it is a planned pregnancy. However, I fell a lot quicker than I expected and I’m so so lucky and extremely grateful (have auto immune disease) One of my best friends recently had a miscarriage after 18 months of trying for baby #2. I feel so aw...

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Question

How soon after miscarrying did you conceive? I recently miscarried at 16 weeks 6 days due to having pProm

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Period after misscarriage

Just got my period after my miscarriage did everyone bleed heavier?

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EPU

Got an appointment at the EPU tomorrow afternoon after bleeding for nearly 2 days and lower back pain yesterday. Was trying to remain positive but unfortunately had a clot pass just now so I don’t think this time is going to work out. I had 3 miscarriages before having my daughter in January of this year. This pregn...

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Pregnant after a miscarriage

Im struggling with really bad anxiety. I’m constantly thinking something bad is going to happen! I never felt this way with my first pregnancy but after falling pregnant again then having a miscarriage I now feel constantly worried about this current pregnancy I am 12 weeks. Please can any mums that how gone throug...

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What do I need to do?

So 3 weeks ago i had positive tests, then a week later tests were coming back negative, now I’ve started bleeding, have I had a miscarriage? And what do I need to do?

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How did you know you were done?

So I have a son, I’ve had two miscarriages, and now almost 22 weeks with another boy. Originally I was soooo set on being done after this because the anxiety of losing another baby is too hard. But as the weeks go by I’m wondering if I should try for another girl (we lost our daughter at 17weeks 11.11.23). I know th...

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Miscarriage vs abortion

I didn't know what group to post this into but I had a conversation earlier today with a girl who said abortions are the same thing as a miscarriage because scientists can't prove what causes a miscarriage and that got on my nerves because an abortion is a choice where as a miscarriage is 100% not avoidable and is v...

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6 weeks and bleeding

I woke up this morning bleeding like a period, I’ve been to hospital and they’re giving me a scan tomorrow. I’m really hoping it isn’t a miscarriage.. has anybody else had bleeding and baby has been ok? Trying to stay positive🥲

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Thretened miscarriage

I hope this post is okay I just come back from the doctors . I went to see my gp due to having sharp pains in my side and in my shoulder now and again and they mentioned a threatened miscarriage but I haven’t had any bleeding at all . Can you have a threatened miscarriage without bleeding ?

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Abortion and flying

Has anyone flown 2 weeks after an abortion? I’m due to go to Spain in a couple of weeks and I’ve been told the risks but I would prefer to hear it off anyone who has been through it. Also how long did your bleeding last afterwards

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Pregnancy after miscarriage

Can I get some advice.

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