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Miscarriage/chemical pregnancy

Can anyone who has experienced one prior to 5 weeks explain how it presented. Iā€™m getting brown spotting. Would a miscarriage develop with more blood or not if itā€™s so early?

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Question

I miscarried my baby a few weeks ago Im thinking about possibly trying again in the near future but im worried what my next pregnancy might look like and what help i would get from medical professionals What kind of help should i expect going forward? Will i be offered any medication? Is there any medication that ...

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Anyone else pregnant after loss?

Congratulations to everyone here ā¤ļø Iā€™m 4 weeks today (found out at 7dpo!) and struggling a bit with anxiety after a missed miscarriage last time I was pregnant. Is anyone else going through a similar thing (pregnancy after loss), or has any words of advice? X

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Miscarriage / chemical

How long did you all start bleeding after your miscarriage? Iā€™ve had positive pregnancy tests and now and negative, pregnancy symptoms all going but no bleeding or pain yet. When did this start for you? I donā€™t know what to expectā€¦.

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Looking for advice

Hi everyone, Iā€™m just wondering if it is possible to miscarry without bleeding. I have had no blood but getting cramping/pains in my stomach. I read online that it can be sign of a chemical but have never experienced this before

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Mourning the loss of my 9 week old baby

So, yesterday while a relaxing day at the beach went to the toilet to pee and I noticed light spotting. At night time increased to droplets of blood while peeing. Light cramping, light lower back pain. Went to the doctor this morning, did some blood tests, everything look ok. Ultrasound at 4pm, there was no heartbea...

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Recent surgery from ectopic pregnancy

Just had ectopic pregnancy surgery to remove my left fallapion tube. Anyone story of a rainbow baby after please? Looking for positive and something to look forward to during this difficult time x

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Experiencing my first miscarriage

I feel so guilty. Iā€™m only 5 weeks but Iā€™m distraught by the fact I know i was stressed and not doing okay. And maybe if I was just a little happier. My baby wouldnā€™t have chosen to leave my body. I was so happy checking the entire week for the positives to soon find out my baby isnā€™t growing. I started bleeding yes...

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How much blood did you lose?

I was told I lost a reasonable amount but not enough for a transfusion. I was so pale afterwards and looked dishevelled. I seem to recall they said I lost 1226ml which seemed a lot...I'm only 5ft 1 I've since read that it's typical to lose up to 500ml for a vaginal birth and 1000ml for a csection. What was your bl...

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Miscarriage options

Hello ladies, need advice or past experience from those that have gone through a miscarriage. I was given three options aside from letting it happen naturally- pill, vacuum or D&C. Had a few ultrasound and my blood was monitored until I was told my HCG levels were dropping and nothing was seen on ultrasound. Appea...

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Miscarriage, D&C?

It has been confirmed that my babyā€™s heart has stopped and he has stopped growing. Now I need to make a decision on how I want him to pass naturally, medicated or d&c. Can I ask peopleā€™s opinions on d&cā€™s? I am a really heavy bleeder with just a normal period so Iā€™m thinking the d&c would help with that a bit and...

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How do you mentally recover after a miscarriage?

I had a missed miscarriage recently and had to have an D+E. So far this is my 4th miscarriage and thankfully I have a 2yo too. I had 2 miscarriages 8 years before having my daughter and I honestly thought they were behind me, but now with two more Iā€™m loosing hope. Iā€™m also under the care of a fertility clinic so th...

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How long did it take you to get pregnant after a miscarriage with PCOS?

Hi Ladies, I believe Iā€™m currently going through a miscarriage. I am overwhelmed with so much hurt and fear at the same time. This pregnancy was not planned however, we were very much excited as it would have been our second and first since getting married. The initial thought was to get pregnant end of the year/be...

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VVVVFL after miscarriage in April

So..yesterday I did a test and thought I could see a shadow, Iā€™ve just done another and there is definitely a line Iā€™m not sure how good people can see it.. Iā€™m absolutely terrified as we had a miscarriage start of April and this was only our second cycle trying Iā€™m supposed to start periods on Tuesday I think.. h...

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Miscarriage

I was 5w3Days and I lost the baby yesterday šŸ˜£ Iā€™ve been so emotional Iā€™m just hurt I say I want to try again right after but now Iā€™m worried about the outcome. My 1 year old laid on my tummy today and made crying noises šŸ„ŗ

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So in just 2 days Iā€™ve been told that I had an ectopic pregnancy

I was also told the tube was leaking and they found blood in my scan. I then had a keyhole surgery the next day, had the tube removed and lost the baby. It all feels a lot in a short space of time. I donā€™t know how or what to feel. I was scared of dying and not coming home to my 2 year old. Iā€™m grieving for my secon...

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How long?

How long after a miscarriage can you/did you wait to try again? Iā€™m so devastated by this loss I was so excited for my daughter to have a sibling I want to try and give her one asap

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Is miscarriage sick leave pregnancy related?

I had a miscarriage recently requiring surgery and had a couple of weeks off work. I was due to return but I am really struggling mentally with the loss and so my gp has certified me with a few more weeks for ā€˜mental health due to miscarriageā€™. My manager has put it as ā€˜stress/mental healthā€™ leave, but I was under t...

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Sex after..

Tigger warning. I had a miscarriage last week Doctor told me Im wait after three weeks as long as I produce a negative pregnancy test and then we would be free to ttc again. We are usually sexually active daily or most days. my question is how long did you wait? how was it? Any thing to expect? pain etc? ...

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I would been 4 weeks pregnant

Today but sadly I have miscarriage only if you can stay alittle longer šŸ˜­

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