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37 weeks pregnant and partner irritating the s### out of me…

Any free time he just sits on his computer playing games… if he’s on a late shift he’s playing it all morning… if he’s on an early shift he’s straight home onto it! He says is there anything you want to do when I moan but there isn’t… idk if I’m being over dramatic or what… any advice 🤦‍♀️

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No friends

I’ve been a mum to my beautiful boy for almost 2 years now, and I don’t have a single mum friend. I’m pregnant with my second, and I just feel so lonely. I have tried so hard to make friends, I’ve been the classes, I’ve messaged mums on here but I’m getting no where, I just get ghosted😞 I know I can be a socially…

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2 week ab challenge !!!

Who wants to do it with me 😊 it's 10 minutes a day!

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Lesbian friends

Is it just me or is it harder to make friends nowadays?

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Do you care about your credit? I can’t lie these last few years I stopped caring about my credit because it got so bad & I don’t even have student loans or anything but rent & car payments came FIRST.

I understand needing credit for purchasing a home, getting approved for things but trying to catch up on other debts is not worth the stress to me anymore. Just trying to survive & make sure I can afford living at this point.

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Is this cheating? How should I handle it?

I’m really conflicted and don’t know what to do. My bf messaged a random woman replying to her story of a selfie saying “nice!😎” when I asked him who the woman was he said he doesn’t know who she is and was being “thirsty” and looking for attention. He down plays it and says “so you’re gonna get mad over a message…

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Maternity pay confusion

Hey guys. For background I’m based in England. So I worked for a agency while doing a training graduate program for a year (June 2023-June 2024) and then was meant to start my PhD which would of gave me a full time position within the NHS but due to pregnancy complications I had to defer for a year. The ward I was...

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Says he’s an empath but maybe a narcissist?

Says he’s an empath so when people are in bad moods he takes on all the negative feelings and then he’s in a bad mood but his bad mood then takes precedence over the original person bad mood

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Going Out

How do you mummy’s time going out with your little ones? I always want to go out and about for a walk but I just feel so overwhelmed with leaving alone. Do you guys feel more comfortable leaving when they are awake or whilst napping? I don’t know why but I always feel so anxious.

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Reporting late to UC

I was in the hospital longer after my c-section and since I’ve just had a baby, I reported my change in circumstances (having first child) to universal credit a day after the assessment period ended. The money has come through today (without child element) and my meeting to prove I’ve had a baby isn’t until tomorrow...

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Steamer/Blender

What’s the best ones to buy… also so we can use it in everyday life in the future.

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Help

I've just found out we're pregnant again. I have a friend who has had recurrent miscarriages and currently isn't trying again until May, how do I tell her I'm pregnant. I meet her on a solo basis for dinner once a month or do I message her. I don't know which would be best, I don't want to make her feel awkward by t...

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Anyone else get their gallbladder out!!

I NEED coffee!!!!!! When can I have it? It’s day 2 for me

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Going out with baby

Does anyone else really struggle to get out with their baby? I feel so guilty that we don’t go places very often but I have really bad social anxiety and don’t drive. We’ve just moved house and there are so many baby groups etc. where we live that I’d love to go to, but unless I have someone with me I find them real...

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WhatsApp groupchat🤞🏼

Anyone know if there’s a WhatsApp group chat for all mummas due in Jan?🫶🏼

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I can’t go out

First day without daddy. I was supposed to go to a group at 1030. Little one wouldn’t settle after being dressed. So just ended up cuddling to sleep. Not even made it downstairs. We have an appointment at 3.20 I’m dreading it. I just can’t seem to manage anything. I feel such a failure

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Single parent going back to work

Single mum here with no child care help but have to go back to work when little one turns 3 ! How do u guys do it

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Bladder issues! 💦

Is anyone else finding they feel the need to go for a wee more often but when they do, it’s just a trickle? The only time i have a ‘proper’ wee is first thing when i wake up, but the rest of the day is no more than a tablespoon each time i swear! I’m not sure if it’s baby laying on my bladder or whether it’s a uti...

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Pamper’s discounts✨

Thank me later! Found these codes on TikTok and thought I’d share them all with you! Simply type them in on your pampers app😊 - PAMPERSNBPP6OFF - BUMPTOBABY6OFF - DOWNLOAD6OFF - NEWNINJAMAS6OFF - NEWBABY6OFF - NEWPANTS6OFF

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Rubbish eater👎🏼 Can anyone recommend the best vitamins for my 14 month old?

Please help mamas! 🫶🏼

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