Experiencing my first miscarriage
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You didn't do anything wrong. These things unfortunately just happen. Your body is so clever, it knew something wasn't quite perfect and decided it would be best to try again. It's heartbreaking, because the moment we see that blue line we start imagining this future baby, but I find comfort in the idea that the soul of the baby is never lost, it will try again with a new body. Your body just wants to ensure everything is perfect for them. I've had two miscarriages, and the first one was one of the hardest things I've had to deal with. It felt like the rug had been pulled out from under me and all the hopes and wishes came crashing down. It's hard. I took a long time working on reframing it, so that when I had the second one I felt more emotionally prepared for it. You didn't do anything wrong. Your body didn't do anything wrong. For all we know it was something wrong with the sperm that made it through, and your body did exactly what it needed to do to protect your future baby ❤️
Your baby didn’t choose to leave you, you’ve done nothing wrong! Please don’t blame yourself Mama🥺 I’m so sorry for your loss!
You didn’t do anything wrong. Stress doesn’t cause miscarriages. I got really angry when a friend said maybe i had a miscarriage cause i was stressed. Have you met a pregnant woman who isn’t stressed? Take care of yourself love, please don’t feel guilty ❤️
Hey I'm so sorry this is happening. I understand how you feel. I know its so hard to not have those thoughts but know you did nothing wrong. Take time to grieve and heal, it'll take time but it won't feel as heavy or hard in time. If you need to talk or vent you can message me