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How to initiate sex?

My husband wants me to initiate sex but I’m too shy to even try. Any suggestions how to start it? I want to try to initiate it before he goes to work. I just don’t know how to initiate it before he wakes up. I’m also scared I’ll startle him lol

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Am I trippin

Am I crazy that someone doesn’t want to acknowledge me or show me off to the world orrrrrrrr

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Sex at 36 weeks

I love my husband and the sex we had before pregnancy was amazing. Even during it’s been awesome but now that I’m huge and almost 37 weeks we can only do one position that I’m comfortable in and a lot of the time it still feels uncomfortable having him inside me. I’m worried it’ll send me into early labor but I don’...

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Mom friends!

Hey ya’ll! I’m a SAHM of a toddler looking for close, real, no judgment, loving friendships with mama’s near me! I’m in the North phoenix area, but anyone in Scottsdale works too. I just want some people in close distance to do stuff together randomly or spontaneously! I love exploring and finding new places, new pa...

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It’s like Tinder on here…

Is it me??!!! Or is it hard to Make mom friends?? It feels like I am dating on Tinder with the ghosting and lack of responses. Anyone else experiencing this??

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Hard to make mom friends

Is it me??!!! Or is it hard to Make mom friends?? It feels like I am dating on Tinder with the ghosting and lack of responses. Anyone else experiencing this??

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Me and my bf are trying to spice up in the bedroom

But…. While I’m excited he brings up dumb shit … like how big my ex was because I told him when we started dating he was Asking me questions I told him that my ex had a very big dick but he didn’t know how to use it and I was not experienced and it didn’t feel good for me …. Well anyways I bought myself a vibrator a...

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Who wants to connect

Bestie in Arizona? ❤️🫶🏼👀

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Struggling to return to work

Hi, my baby is almost 5 months and I feel like we grow closer attached every single day. My leave is almost over and I’m struggling with the idea of sending her to daycare (family is too far). I want to raise her but financially I’m not sure I can. Crying at the thought of leaving her. Anybody else going through th...

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MIL doesn’t like me but LOVES my baby? 🤔

I became a ftm 6 months ago to the most precious baby girl. My MIL and I tolerate each other. She is a major narcissist so I keep her at a distance. She has never referred to me as her daughter in law despite her son and I being married 4 years now (he’s her only child). I’m simply her “son’s wife”. When she’s about...

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I don’t know what to call it…

I downloaded this app back when I lived in California with my first son in 2021 and didn’t really get anything out of it. I got back on here after being in Boulder for 2 months and 0 mom friends. Well, I realized how much work it is for me to just converse in messages—asking the right questions, thinking of topics t...

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Irritated

Im really starting to dislike this app. It's some goofy shit being asked and talked about.

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Cardi B got me thinking

So I found out the father of my children was cheating on me while I was pregnant. Till this day he denies it but I still think of how horrible he made my pregnancy. We’ve had moments where I thought things got better between us but this whole Cardi B thing got me in a frenzy & the idea of cheating back at him seems ...

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Alternative boy mommy.

Hi I am looking for any mommy friends (I’m in the Rosamond, ca area) that is willing to chat and be friends, my son was born on Halloween so we love things spooky.

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Unsure how to feel

So my fiance’ is considering taking a job in North Korea on a 6 month contract making 4K a week and he asked me how I felt about it or if he should take it & honestly I have mixed emotions about it simply because our baby is due this Christmas which means he wouldn’t be here or able to help out even after baby is bo...

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How to spice it up in the bedroom

Me and my boyfriend of two years are getting a little bored or well I’m getting really bored and I want more pleasure from it. Any ideas or toys that we could try

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Fwb possibly 🥰👀

Anyone looking for a new bestie? Been craving some female energy and good vibes. Would love to chit chit through the day and even help satisfy each other urges, if interested! feel free to message me 🥰

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Looking for more mommy friends

Hi lovely ladies! My precious baby girl is now 19 months and I want to meet other moms who had their babies around the same time. I’m looking to form a mini-community. We can have weekly check-ins, video calls, a group text, just sharing in this journey together since our kids are the same age. I’m currently expect...

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Meet up

Hello everyone, would any mums be interested for a meet up in town center/ Cleveland center ( I'm free on Tuesday as I don't work on Tuesday) weekend would work as well.

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Would you amend things with mil for the sake of your daughter?

So I wrote on here nearly a year ago when my mil went absolutely crazy on me. She got her new boyfriend (who I’ve only met a few times) to send me a horrible text saying that he thinks I need to go straight back into work instead of being with my child (who is going to nursery when she’s 2) that I’m stupid as I’ve b...

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