That sort of money hard to say no to. But with that sort of money you can afford extra help like a nanny for awhile. Can he not return for a weekend here and there or is it straight 6months no breaks? What will he be doing x
Honestly, I would have them take it. I would miss my husband like crazy but four grand a week is not money that the average person can just give up especially not with that many kids for grind a week is 16 grand a month and six months you guys could buy a decent house and afford a nanny and, honestly if you get a nanny, you could also go back to work to keep your mind off of it if you wanted to
Are there people who can come stay with you while he is in North Korea? Parents? Or can you hire a nanny?