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Bf got angry because I didn't wear underwear to bed

Last night, I slept wearing a nighty without underwear. I'm 30 weeks pregnant, and I feel really uncomfortable wearing knickers to bed. Tonight, my partner said, Can you wear shorts or something tonight as i woke up this morning and the first thing I saw was your arse. I explained why I didn't wear underwear, and ...

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Am I overthinking?

So my partner and I had sex for the first time again in MONTHS. I gave birth weeks ago and we have been counting down for the all clear and it’s finally happened. We couldn’t keep our hands off each other and the build up was amazinggg. We had a few drinks and got a little high and keep teasing each other in the ki...

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Potential

What if.... You have a Male Best friend (not the kind you are keeping in your back pocket , for when your boyfriend/spouse messes up) I mean, A bestie -that is a straight Cis Male. Whenever you guys go out--- you go Dutch and you pay for your own things. He confesses that He likes you as more than a friend... ...

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Can one truly forgive infidelity in a relationship?

Feel free to comment

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Hate being lonely

I have 2 sons, ages 3&4- they are my whole world& everything I do is for them. But I’m so lonely, especially when my boyfriend is at work most days.. I have only a few friends but not that ‘bestie’ everyone else has and It makes me so sad.. all the friends I did have I lost down to an ex and everyone else I have mad...

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New friends?

Hiii, I'm a 20yo with a 3 month old baby girl looking to meet some new people, have a chat or meet in person ideally from around Reading? Haven't got many people to meet so feel stuck in the house🥲 Snap is armxni_xo

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Anyone know? 🥲

I’m 38+6 weeks, baby was conceived around January time. And I have been on sertraline since February. For a while now my sex drive has been very low, it’s definitely since these huge changes has came about. I can’t climax which makes it boring for me now, I still adore my partner so it isn’t that. I’m just confused,...

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Hello!

What a fun group to be in! Can’t wait to chat about science. What’s your favorite science branch?

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Std Positive Claims he didnt cheat

Hey everyone. I’m currently 13 weeks and I’ve been faithful throughout my realtionship. We’ve been together roughly since April and got pregnant around July. My last time getting tested for any STDs was August of last year. Everything negative. But they informed me if i just contracted something it might not show ye...

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TIRED of crazy ex baby mum

My husband ex baby mum don’t let him see the kid since i contacted her because i wanted to know what happened between them, she lied to me said they wanna go back together that she don’t know he was married bla-bla-bla but he showed me the proof that she’s the one behind him since few months wathever, the girl went...

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Hi just had my baby

Would love to meet up on the weekends or evenings as I'm going back to work next week

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Cafe / pub recommendations please

Can anyone recommend cafe / pubs that are suitable for a group of mums? So many places aren’t suitable for multiple mums and prams! Thank you!

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New Friends?

Okay so I’m just going to be honest lol I want new friends but people get offended because I text back every few days sometimes I don’t answer the phone 24/7 and would rather text / send voice memos. But I do want a girls group that I can go out on weekends, make TikTok’s, post on IG etc that type of thing😩 anyone…

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I hate babies dad

My bf won't take baby ever. I asked and he said you shouldn't see her as a burden. My sister always has her kids. You've had time to yourself you went to baby group. If you don't want a nap why is it relevant. You're the only person to think they can't do anything having a baby. I hate him so much 😭 I've written…

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Hey everybody

I'm looking for new mummy friends to talk to on Snapchat feel free to add me https://www.snapchat.com/add/patricia238289?share_id=F1XUESs9QMQ&locale=en-GB. I'm 27 derby I have 4 kids 1 girl 1 boy and twin boys but sadly one them passed away last year and my alive twin was born 27weeks in August 2023 3months early f...

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Intimacy with partner

My husband and I haven’t had sex since I got pregnant. Our daughter is 5 and a half months old. While pregnant I was really anxious about something happening to baby and then once she was here she was obviously with us in the same room all the time and I was recovering from a C-section. She’s coming upto 6 months ol...

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Birmingham Mama’s Group Chat

Hey ladies! Me and a couple other ladies have created a group chat on Whatsapp so we can plan Days Out, Events, Play dates etc If you would like to be added to the group, comment below or send me a message 💗💗💗

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Different views?

I hope I don’t sound like a bitch or I’m not the only one that thinks this… Y’all are BEAUTIFUL!! And I’m sure most of yall are WONDERFUL people. But because of how I’ve seen “best friends” treat “best friends” I’m scared to get close to anyone that I feel is going to try to make sure she looks better or she is the ...

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No Sex Drive Whatsoever

Hi, mamas. My son is nearly 17 months old and I still have no sex drive whatsoever. My husband has a high sex drive and wants it every night, so I try to give it to him at least two or three times a week. However, he knows I am never in the mood, and it makes him so sad because he feels like I am doing him a favor. ...

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Mummy friends

Looking for mummy friends for play dates and adult time aswell ❤️

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