Std Positive Claims he didnt cheat
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He’s a narcissist and he I fact did cheat on you and you have all the proof you need I’d say stay away from him as this is pretty serious instead of him being worried about the child he totally lashed out at you flipped everything on you that’s crazy
She sent it to say she was “coming back to NC to get her man back” and we have had sex no condom for months like serious i NEVER cheated never even kissed anybody else so idk if im one of the 4% who got trich from a bath towel or toilet seat or he had it gave it to me and lied but i literally have not had sex with anyone with him and we’ve been together since april he gave me head i gave him head we did it no condom all the time so i dont understand why his was negative mine was positive
I told HIM i tested positive as soon as i got my results even apologized if i had it before him and tranfered it to him but i know what i’ve done with my body and i havent been with anyone else all year thats why when he asked for dna test i literally bought it myself. I have NO doubts. But he still swears i cheated on him and im a liar now all of a sudden he “heard about me” from someone else and my past in high school. And even that doesnt make sense bc in hs i was still a virgin! I didn’t loose my virginity until college. My doctor literally said if he had it and gave it to me and he took any antibiotics its no longer in his system idk what he’s taken but i know he takes percs things like that aint no telling if he got seen without me. But i literally tried everything to prove myself and im 13 weeks literally almost too late for an abortion but i DONT believe in those i dont think i could live with myself if i took that road
Some men don’t show up in test my ex gave me a std years ago and his came back clear but he did cheat on me and no you can’t get it from toilet lol but Goodluck
Stop showing him proof. He knows you’re not lying because he is! He will die on this hill and that is why he’s freaking insane. Please get away from him while you can. This is only the beginning of what sounds like a horrible horrible relationship with him
Poor you, another woman who has been trapped in the web of lies of a man who has surely portrayed himself as a nice guy in the beginning! We all have been there. I hope you get out of this relationship safe and sound 🩷 By the way you have written your post you seem to be a nice lady who deserves much, much better! Please put yourself first and only accept people in your life who will show respect to you at all times and will have your best interest at heart xx
I had a false postive for an std once. I would get retested. Just for your peace of mind
He’s a gaslighter and you have to stop trying to prove yourself. I say this from experience not judgement, let him go and focus on yourself the writing is on the wall! Same happened to me during pregnancy with my second and 11 years later when I found he was paying prostitutes for sex, WITH MY MONEY, I’m the breadwinner, he repaid me by cracking me in the jaw. I am happily divorced but traumatized worse than had I listened to my gut back when. If he left, good riddance to bad rubbish!
@Amber that’s impossible. There is no way that you can have something and it isn’t detected unless it isn’t tested for or it’s too soon. Men are often asymptomatic tho
@Monét idk my ex did show up on test and doctors said it’s normal nd gave him shot anyway but my ex did admit to sleeping with someone without protection and my ex would sleep with them dirty bitches soooo I didn’t doubt it you know
He is an abuser. It’s not weird that you tested positive and he was negative because that’s not what happened. He’s making you think you’re crazy when there’s literal proof and there’s a word for that Even if you DID cheat, which you know you didn’t, he has still slept with you and there is no possible way for him not to have gotten it unless you guys use condoms. Have you had sex since finding out you’re pregnant? If I were you I’d message the girl and tell her to go get tested. And was she sending this to brag?