Bf got angry because I didn't wear underwear to bed
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That's horrible, he does realise he's seen your bare arse before. Hence the pregnancy. So sorry you're dealing with this.
i would be super upset too. He’s your partner and SHOULD want to do all of those things. Quite frankly sounds like you’re describing a teenage boy with the way he acts
This post is sad im sorry hes said that
Im sorry, that is awful of him 😔. I am not a fan of wearing underwear to bed and my husband never says anything about it. It shouldn't matter how you go to bed. Plus he should put more effort in pleasing you sexually.
No this is very wrong of your partner. Especially because you’re uncomfortable wearing them. I was the same and my partner didn’t mind, in fact he started to join me and sleep naked together sometimes. He just knew it can be more comfortable. Like how when you’re pregnant your body temperature raises and you feel hotter and there’s not a lot you can change about that especially when it’s hot on some days and nights. I’d feel the same as you if my partner said that to me. Just tell him, I’m sleeping how I want in my bed if you don’t like it, there is a nice sofa in the living room 🫠🫠 not being funny but like he’s not the pregnant one as well. Your comfort should come first. I don’t get why he has a problem seeing your butt? Does he like it during sex? Because I don’t see how it even would make a difference.
Also the thing about him putting it in when you’re not ready can have lasting effects. He’s crossed that boundary so many times. Tell him no. Say no. If it makes you feel this way, just stop him from doing anything at all. Tell him he can’t have sex with you like that. It’s uncomfortable for you and you’re not turned on enough. He should be taking time to care for you. I’m really sorry you’re going through all of this. If you tell him you don’t like him doing something and he does it, that’s not consent unless you say you want it. I’m not saying it wasn’t but I don’t know from what you’ve said whether you tell him in the moment or before or after sex if that makes sense?
It sounds like he has some issues with sex and intimacy. This could really cause some problems and resentment further down the line. I would address these sooner rather than later really, especially because you're now having a child together.
He sounds like a pos and needs to treat u better. Ur not hideous or disgusting, u r creating a human being with ur body that is incredible and u r powerful!
That’s horrible. One, it’s for comfort . Two, it’s your bed, you should be able to sleep butt naked if you please.
Ooh girl I’m sorry he said that to you. He was in the wrong to say that, and I hope he apologizes to you
That’s terrible! If I did this (and I have) my partner is excited if anything to catch a glimpse. The sex is very important to me in a relationship. I’m sorry you had to go through that. 🫂
I'm sorry he's said that. I would have taken offence to that but I would tell him you are growing your baby. If you're not comfortable wearing underwear don't wear them and don't apologise to him being grumpy. He's seen your bum before and he'll see it again. You need to be comfortable
This is horrific, I'd feel upset too if my partner said this! My fella would love it if I had my bum bare at night 😅. He sounds like a selfish prick, who doesn't give a toss about your enjoyment, only his own. Is this a man you actually want to spend the rest of your life with?
I'm so sorry 😞 what an awful thing to say You deserve orgasms and someone who wants to see your bare ass and actively encourages you to sleep without undies You don't need to apologise for being comfortable especially when pregnant xx
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He sounds like a dick. There wasn’t any need for his comment. I haven’t got the best body, far from, muffin top and everything even before this pregnancy but my husband would rather me be naked and comfortable than to be lay stressing over how I look.
Kick him out that's not someone that loves you , Jesus he sounds like a loser and a waste of time ...your pregnant FFS ...you need realise your worth ...your worth so much more than that ....I'm so sorry its such a shitty thing to say ...he should be literally worshipping you at this point yano ,what type of boyfriend doeant want to see his girlfriend ass.? Everytime I get my ass out my boyfriend wants to take me to the bedroom or yano get sexual ,you deserve way better the him ....all i can say is that isn't normal hun xx
This is so rude and disrespectful! You’re carrying his child for gods sake! The way he treats you is so wrong. I would be considering some kind of relationship counselling or getting out of the relationship. You deserve so much better
This is so horrible, I’m sorry he’s like this to you. I would ask him to sleep elsewhere as you will not be wearing underwear to bed. I sleep naked, always have as feels comfier and my partner loves it and respects my body for carrying our sons. Please know you’re beautiful and he’s just very childish
Tbh it was the sex bit for me.. that is such an horrible thing to do that he doesn’t care about your feelings but jus purely has sex for his gratification 😞 I’m sorry but he doesn’t very nice
I think your partner is disgusting and his idea of sex sounds awful. Why are you with him? Not only is the things he said degrading but also he treats you like a sex doll. You deserve better. Run.
Sorry you’re experiencing this and I hope you can work it out! Me personally would tell my partner he’s lucky he would get to see that for free, next time he’ll have to pay and sex would be off the cards until he can show a little passion
He’s selfish and a little boy . He needs to grow up and be a man finish you first . He needs to understand action means putting you first . If he loves you he will change this childish behavior .
This is awful! I’m so sorry 🫂