Community Posts, Tips & Support on Health & Wellbeing

Currently on MAT leave, on stat pay, due back to work in the new year, if I was to find a job while on MAT leave as I don’t want to return o my of job, what do I do? Who do I contact to stop MAT payments, and do I contact work? There arseholes I won’t lie but I just don’t know how to go about it… Thanks!!!

Would anyone like a whats ap group,or to organise casual group meet ups to make some new mummy friends? I feel like the only pregnant person I know in my area! Also wanting to attend some good prenatal Yoga & exercise classes if anyone else is interested or has suggestions.

If you aren't on it, how do you prevent pregnancy?

I’ve been with my partner for 10 years, we’ve always been best friends. I had our second baby in August and when she was two weeks he went for a stag in Ibiza for a week for his brothers wedding. Little did I know he cheated out there - what makes it worse is he brought it home. He met up with her twice since being ...

I split with my ex start of this year. I am now with his freind he had 3 ish years ago… doesn’t sound as bad as it seems. Wel anyway me and ex lived together for nearly all our relationship it was very toxic but we loved one another so so much. Is it bad that I want the support off him whilst pregnant with my curren...

If you did, did the aesthetic play into it? If you didn’t, do you worry about infection? Yelling at your kid to clean under their foreskin? Haha

So this is our first baby and our relationship currently isn't great. I'm still figuring out how to be a mom, breastfeeding (struggling a lot), c-section recovery (hasn't been good still healing since a month ago) and taking care of the little one. He wants intimacy and for me to help out around the house more. To ...

For those working from home due to childcare, what reasons are you giving your job? I’m looking for a remote job, and I’ve seen a few saying hybrid with option to go fully remote but not sure what to tell them my reason is for being remote if they ask. For context, my baby girl is 7 months and I’m not ready to p...

Any south London mummies that wanna hang out? X

Our relationship has been rocky after a physical bad fight followed by a breakup He now is sleeping with possibly 3 other women and wants to be honest by letting me know about the other women. One of the women he claims he stopped talking to has already threatened my life and doesn't even know me.

Looking for a good reliable period tracker. I want to get of my birth control but not ready for another one yet

I love my husband and push him to go out with his friends (he doesn’t go often ) but then i stay home so sad because I don’t have any friends to go out with. Ok that’s it. Back to crying :(

What you all getting your LO? I’m finding it hard to know what to get my LG anyone’s ideas are welcome or what you got your LO? Thanks guys🫶🏻

It’s fucking depressing asf to befriend people who don’t even be serious about friendship … things are not like how they use to be …I’m so fucken tired of wasting my time trying to get to know people and build relationships bonds with people only to not be talking to that person ever again after about 6 months to a ...

Really random question but does anyone wear crotchless knickers as a normal daily thing? I ordered some just for a bit of fun with the husband and when I saw them I thought actually these might be the perfect way to avoid thrush! I haven't actually worn them yet but I was just wondering if anyone has or does and if ...

Do you put reminders for yourself (self care, self love, eat etc) around the house or on your phone?

Legit jobs please 😭

Which one should i get the one the dr prescribed is not in stock

Hey I’m only 9 weeks but have had a uti for a week or so and been on antibiotics but doesn’t seem to want to go away, has anyone else had this and everything be ok?

Is anyone receiving really cheap or free therapy? I feel like I really need to go get some help but I just can’t afford it.