No friends 🤦‍♀️
It’s fucking depressing asf to befriend people who don’t even be serious about friendship … things are not like how they use to be …I’m so fucken tired of wasting my time trying to get to know people and build relationships bonds with people only to not be talking to that person ever again after about 6 months to a year…. Everybodies trauma and delusions keep getting in the way of wats real ….. and healthy …. Im the friend that’s gone tell u the truth no matter what I thought that it would be respected but people hate me for it … in order to build a strong family u must build a strong foundation which means it starts with being real with urself and the others around u …. There are truly people out here that are not ready for no relationships, friendships, and parenthood not saying that they don’t have the potential to do wnd be greater but this shit is sad like there is no fucken stability in the friend ship pool for me and I truly hate it.. society is fucked up I don’t remember making friends being this got damn hard
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U are so right u hit that shit right on the head
I always tell people that I'm not a good everyday friend, unless you wanna call. Texting is so hard for me to do because I'm constantly doing something. Also with texting I'm more likely to forget to message you first because I have my daily people (husband, his family/my family) and they push everyone else further down the line.
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Alot of people are inconsistent that's what I noticed. Like people say they wants friends but they don't know how to be a real friend. Or either I'm the one always initiating a conversation. If it's not for that that person woukd never hit me up. Or either they are a friend based on a convenience . Something they need. I didn't realize how hard it was to make friends until I got on here tbh. Like I feel like the same way women entertain men or find the time to date they can find time to be a friend . Do girl things , grab a coffee or a tea. Meet up at a park etc. And sometimes it doesn't have to be all the time it can be a once a month outing because I do understand people have life's or married etc. But just not to make time is weird to me. I always felt like I've had to put pressure under people. When I start to feel like the friendship is one-sided I instantly dip out. Your not the only one. Sorry you going through that.