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Partner resents me for having baby

My partner told me last night he resents me for having our baby (19 month old son). I’m a stay at home mom and he takes care of us financially and took on my debt (about 10K). I know it’s a lot but to say he resents me for having the baby feels like an eye opener- now I just see him as unhappy and not wanting to hav...

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Homemade to go plates

Fresh Wild caught Catfish fillets seasoned with creole seasonings, battered and pan fried in pure grapeseed oil accompanied with organically grown cabbage with whole smoked turkey wing

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Looking for work!

Hello, does anybody know of any jobs going in maidstone? I have been looking for a few months now and it only seems to be nursery staff or care. I have retail experience and nursery experience, however nursery isn't suitable atm. Thanks!

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Space to share

Anyone else feeling lonely, isolated and overwhelmed even though our journey in this newborn phase has been 2 months++? It's been an up and down journey for me. There are easier days but also the harder days. I am beginning to feel like it's a lonely experience so far as everyday feels the same. I hope I'm not alone...

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Depo shot

I saw a post of a women saying was pregnant while being on depo and still using condoms, so it got me curious has anybody else gotten pregnant on the depo shot

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Meet up?

Does any mummy's around the south of London wanna meet up next week? Holla back!

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Christmas present ideas

So our LG is going to be 10 months for Christmas so won’t understand what’s going on. But what sort of things would you get them toy wise? Would you get 12 month plus so it will do for the next year or so? Struggling 😩

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Friends

Hi! I’m a new mom and looking for more friends to add to my circle! Here’s a picture of my baby! Drop your socials if you have any :)

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👻 Boo basket 👻🎃

Is anyone doing a boo basket for their little one? Has anyone else got any other ideas what I can put in mine? I’ve just got some Halloween stickers, a Halloween cup and a chocolate pumpkin lolly x

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Am I wrong for this?

Hi I need some advice on this matter pls. So when I was around 15 my SIL ( older brothers wife) had her first baby and she was struggling a little so she’d ask me to stay quite often to help her with like night feeds or just house chores which I was more than happy to do so. Since I was over so often I was around ...

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What next after maternity is ending ?

My maternity is over but I don’t wanna put my baby in day care. Any suggestions for evening jobs or work from home jobs to do. He’s my first born & I want to spend a bit more time with him before I put him in child care 🥺😩

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Working from home

Hi I’m looking to find a flexible job preferably working from home and office during school hours, with a company that understands work life balance but also a decent income to support my family (I know I want it all lol) any company or job recommendations I’m in no rush as looking for this next September when my da...

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Not finding out the sex…

So when I was pregnant with my first we found out the sex… when it is time for us to conceive our second apart of me wants to be surprised by the sex when giving birth. Who else has done this and what are/were your thoughts on it?

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Relationship issues! (And me)

So about into 5 months pregnancy, I found out my partner been cheating at least emotionally. Says nothing happened physically but deep down I have this weird feeling it isn't the case. Fast forward to a month on, I then found it hadnt stopped. I honestly just cried, absolutely heartbroken and having my first child...

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Advise please 🤔

Currently on MAT leave, on stat pay, due back to work in the new year, if I was to find a job while on MAT leave as I don’t want to return o my of job, what do I do? Who do I contact to stop MAT payments, and do I contact work? There arseholes I won’t lie but I just don’t know how to go about it… Thanks!!!

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Devon Mums To Be

Would anyone like a whats ap group,or to organise casual group meet ups to make some new mummy friends? I feel like the only pregnant person I know in my area! Also wanting to attend some good prenatal Yoga & exercise classes if anyone else is interested or has suggestions.

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Any moms not on birth control?

If you aren't on it, how do you prevent pregnancy?

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Partner cheated

I’ve been with my partner for 10 years, we’ve always been best friends. I had our second baby in August and when she was two weeks he went for a stag in Ibiza for a week for his brothers wedding. Little did I know he cheated out there - what makes it worse is he brought it home. He met up with her twice since being ...

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Help!

I split with my ex start of this year. I am now with his freind he had 3 ish years ago… doesn’t sound as bad as it seems. Wel anyway me and ex lived together for nearly all our relationship it was very toxic but we loved one another so so much. Is it bad that I want the support off him whilst pregnant with my curren...

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Boy Moms: Did you circumcise your son?

If you did, did the aesthetic play into it? If you didn’t, do you worry about infection? Yelling at your kid to clean under their foreskin? Haha

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