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Advice please

I’m currently going through my first miscarriage and trying to weigh up the different options, I was just hoping for some advice/experiences on medication management and the D&C surgery, I have no idea what to expect and so nervous 😥 I’m currently booked in for surgery on Wednesday but I just don’t know if it’s the…

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Period after miscarriage

How long did it take you to get your first period after MMc? Thank you

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Going through a lot..

Since I found out I was pregnant I’ve had a lot of things happen which I’m now not sure is turning into PPD - a miscarriage just before this baby - moving house - a really challenging pregnancy which left me in bed for 7 months (HG) - redundancy - lots of family dramas - a traumatic birth - starting a new job 8 w...

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Advice? Tips?

I’m currently having my first miscarriage. We were hoping it was just spotting or a light bleeding during first pregnancy but I started heavily bleeding during my appointment and it’s continued. OB pretty much confirmed it’s a miscarriage and just doing another hcg draw to see if im continuing to drop. 😭

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Would you try again?

I’ve got 3 children ages 11, 8, & 2 and decided to go for one more.. I’ve had 2 miscarriages this year and I’m just unsure what to do now… I know it’s my decision but what would you do??

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Future pregnancies with prolapse

After having my 2nd baby I was diagnosed with a cystocele and uterine prolapse. I’m unsure the degree of these as I haven’t had my appointment with gynaecology yet (I was referred 12 months ago!) Iv now recently discovered that I’m pregnant again and wondering if anyone has had experience of having more pregnancies ...

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Opinions?

Had a miscarriage april of 2023. Been trying ever since, gave a new test a try. not sure if this is an indent/evap, vfl or neg. lmk. i def have MAJOR line eyes ever since ttc

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I need help. I can't get pregnant again.

I got pregnant back in February just 2 months into my relationship. We were so happy but ended up having a miscarriage just 8 weeks into the pregnancy. I had a d&c in April and my first period back in May. We've been trying ever since and i just can't get pregnant. Did this happen to anyone else? Did it take a while...

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Question

Where I am from, after a year of TTC you are supposed to chat with your doctor which has me curious how many months I’ve technically been trying to conceive. When you have an early miscarriage (I started bleeding at 5w1d) does it reset the amount of months I’ve been TTC?

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Encouragement/ Update on Tré

I see a lot of new Mamas lately so I just wanted to share my little guy and our PPROM story as encouragement. I had an early anatomy scan at 17 weeks because I had a Subchronic Hematoma that bled constantly. During the anatomy scan they saw my fluid was low and that my baby was about 4 weeks behind on his growth in...

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Need some advise

I came home from holiday a week ago and was their was light blood when I wiped for 2 days Wednesday I was passing clots it calmed down Thursday and Friday the same happened again someone told me take a test and it's postive does it mean I miscarried

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41TTC after Tubal reversal

I’ve had 3 kids, after my 3rd I had my tubes tied for about 16yrs now, but I Got divorced with my ex 2010. Remarried 2016, 2 yrs ago I had my tubes untied and my periods irregular now , I’ll have pregnancy like symptoms but always negative. Anyone relate?

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TTC Baby #2

Hello mamas! We are trying for baby #2 after having a miscarriage last month. The miscarriage was at 5weeks. This is my BBT tracking for this cycle. Based of it, does it look like I could be pregnant? My cycles are regularly 27-28 days with the occasional 30 days.

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Miscarriage?

6.5 weeks pregnant. Had an early scan at 6 weeks and it was confirmed that baby is in the right place. However last two days have been having sharp pains in my shoulder. Today small amount of thick discharge which was tinged brown. Am I miscarrying/going to miscarry?

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Anxiety

Is anyone else really anxious this is baby no.5 for me I had a miscarriage but I’m extremely anxious of something going wrong I don’t know how to calm myself down

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Panicking

I lost my little girl a few weeks ago and tonight I just feel panicked. I was going to be a single mum which I didn't mind at all. What if that's it and I never have another chance at having a kid? I'm desperate to have my baby back though I know that's not possible. Why did god do this?

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Trying to convince second child

Hello. I’ve been trying to convince my second for what feels ages, (since September) we’ve had two very early miscarriages (one before Christmas and one in February) It didn’t take this long with my first but still had two miscarriages before I caught. I’m now on day 39 of my cycle and am yet to have a period. I...

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Pregnant again

I’m pregnant again after having a miscarriage. Feels so weird. I am so scared of losing this one too.

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Defo nothing is there?

My period is late but I guess it’s just my body messing with me. Been trying over a year and had one miscarriage and a chemical and since the miscarriage every negative is so much worse 😞

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Feeling so guilty

I'm not posting all details of the last 2 days just the accident and result so Far. Lg 18w. Thursday we were at my mom's. I'd just fed my daughter and was burping her on my lap. No wind was coming up so I decided to try on my shoulder. Usually, Violet will sit on my lap in aided for a few seconds leaning against my...

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