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Maternity leave… when to take it?

Wondering when all other mums to be are planning to take their maternity leave? Or have taken it in the past! Our little boy is due 7th February and I’m not sure when to go on maternity leave. Im not returning after maternity leave so no need to keep extra weeks for when baby is born… so very tempted to finish after...

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Going back to work and starting nursery.

Anyone else go back to work after 9 months and their lo start nursery at 9 months old? In November we will have to be at work/nursery for 7.45 and won’t be back home till 6pm. Mixed emotions about this, and seems wild to be up ready and out the house at 7.30am lol. How are we managing dinner and bed time routine whe...

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Stat pay

How’s everyone surviving on stat maternity pay. Just had my first wage of only stat pay and I’m not ok 😂😂 knew it was coming but it is literally buttons !! Cannot believe women are expected to live off of this while raising a family.

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Teachers, when are you starting maternity leave?

I was planning on continuing to 38 weeks (c section booked for 39 weeks), but not sure I'll make it that long. What are you guys doing, as maternity pay is so bad and we do not have the option to take annual leave like other professions?

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WFH

I realy need job and i can’t leave my son alone and couldn’t afford nursery.. if any one can help main finding job work from home… many thanks to those

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Working Mums

Would love some advice and to hear stories of how you adjusted to going back to work. I have been off work for a year and a half with my LO and have just been offered a job full time doing what I love which is great and I’m excited to get back into work and earn some decent money again after struggling for some ti...

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What to do with excess annual leave?

I went back to work off maternity leave last Monday and have managed to use all of my accrued annual leave from when I was off to book one day a week off from the middle of September 2024 to August 2025. This basically means I’ve gone down to 4 days a week but still on a full wage. I found out a few weeks ago that...

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KIT Days - What are my rights?

Do I have any? My employer apparently only pays you for the hours work and not the whole day. Is that allowed? I’m not paid hourly I have an annual salary so it seems a bit weird. Also, I think they dismiss you so how is that my fault? If they tell me to go home early then why am I losing out on pay?

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What is the best way to take maternity leave?

Is it better to leave it as the standard way they pay you or does it work out better to ask for your maternity leave to be evenly spread out? Which way works out better? Is it better tax wise if it’s spread out over the year?

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Maternity Pay

What month did you start to struggle with your maternity pay? NHS have messed mine up, no surprise!

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Maternity Exemption Certificate

Found out I was pregnant on 8/9. Went to doctors on the 20/9 and paid for 2 x prescription which was £19.80. I told my doctor’s pharmacy that I was pregnant but didn’t have my mat exemption cert yet. They said to keep hold of the card receipt for the payment and once I get the mat cert can claim it back as long as t...

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Sure start maternity grant

Has anyone applied for this after baby was born? I'm only getting around to applying now and my baby is 5.5 months old. The form says part of it needs filled out by a doctor or midwife, but I don't have a midwife anymore and never get through to my GP. Has anyone Applied after baby was born and what did you do?

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FTM baby due to go to nursery in Jan

After waiting 12 years for my miracle baby I am so not ok with her going to nursery in Jan and being away from her for 8-9 hours a day. Is anyone else struggling with this? Work rejected my flexible working request so I am now having to work 3 full days and 2 half days so basically a full week almost. I really d...

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5.5%

Did anyone on mat leave get their 5.5% this month

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Cash help; Calworks

Anyone know how much you have to make to still be able to get calworks? We are a family of 4. My husband is the only one working because I don’t have a work permit (I wasn’t born here) and we have 2 kids. He has been very depressed lately because bills are high and he is barely able to keep up and I’m wondering if w...

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Outside of being a mom, if you work, what is your job?

just bored and curious. I am a stay at home mom and college student 😄

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I want to start up my onlyfans account with out my husband knowing

Hey y’all I need ideas on how to start up my onlyfan account without my husband knowing. I just want to make some cash without him knowing I have money. I didn’t only fans in the past and it just caused issues cause I was trying to make it my form of work and he didn’t want me talking to any of the guys didn’t want ...

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Maternity leave ending

I’m back to work in a couple weeks and I feel devastated 😢 I know it sounds dramatic but I can’t get over the anxiety I feel every day at the moment knowing I won’t get to spend every day with my little boy and I just burst into tears as soon as I have to think about anything to do with work and getting prepped for…

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Maternity pay and sure start

Will they accept a photocopy of the mat b1 form?

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Universal credit and not returning to work

I’ve decided to be a sahm until next year, my partner works full time and we get a little help from UC, do I need to update UC that I’m not returning to work because my maternity has ended? My maternity ended in June and I haven’t been receiving anything from work obviously so do I need to put a change of circumst...

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