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Cheating while pregnant?

So I found out that my partner had been messaging his ex back in February while I was around 20 weeks pregnant. She told me he had been messaging her at the start of my pregnancy and it continued up until she told me. She showed me proof. She knew I was pregnant and with him too (she’s 19, hes 20 and I’m 22) I put...

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Christmas?

What's everyone getting their babies for Christmas? My son's birthday is also the 26th he'll be a year old, and so far he's not really shown a lot of interest in toys right now he's only interested in household items and the odd things I have in our house. I don't want to buy a bunch of stuff that he's only going to...

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Work from home night jobs

I need another job, we're two months behind on rent, can barely afford groceries, had my credit card closed, and things aren't looking up. I'm looking for something I can do at home at night so that I can still cook, clean, and put my daughter to bed. Husband goes to school at night so it's just me. Please if anyone...

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Should all toilets be unisex?

With baby changing for all!!

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Rekindling the flame in your marriage

What do you guys do?

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How to co parent with an abusive ex

My bd and I broke up while I was still pregnant he was abusive physically and emotionally , I took legal action against him and the court /social services said he will only see his child once he’s 5 months old in the presence of social workers , i hate him so much for everything he put me through but I have to deal...

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Sex post 🤣

So… recently me and my partner haven’t been having sex probably once a month sometimes if that. Hes not big on going out for meals and stuff so date night out isn’t going to work but ideas on how to get the sex back? We’ve never been a have sex all the time couple but recently it’s been terrible. I need help .. i wa...

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Pumpkin muffins (w/cottage cheese) & sweet potato hash with sausage and spinach

Calling this my high protein breakfast plate 😆

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Group chat

Is anyone interested in a GC on WhatsApp? Send me a message! :)

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What should I do?

*Long Read* So my baby daddy and I have been separated for about 2 years now but every so often he reaches out saying he wants to work it out. So here's the back story of why we aren't together. So I was married but the marriage had a lot of problems because of family on both sides not wanting us to be together. ...

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Cheese & Broc-cauli Potato Pancakes / Yogurt / Pears

Made us some veggie fritters for breakfast:)

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Staphylococcus saprophyticus

I like totally anxiety ridden at this point & I just want to know if anybody has experienced this or even any kind at all. On sept 1st i received this diagnosis with uti symptoms present. I was given bactrim but started to get itchy and felt extremely tired. At that point my doctor switched me to nitrofurantoin it s...

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Vent

Has anyone else here literally lost almost all of their friends since becoming a mom? It feels super lonely sometimes

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Needing SAHM friends 😢

Idk why it’s so hard for me to make friends it seems like no one wants to be my friend about to just give up trying to make any!!?! Anyone wanna be friends

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Anyone's flexible working request been rejected?

I work as a dental nurse, this is baby #2. I worked 4days a week after baby #1, and now Im on mat leave, looking to go back in January. I submitted a flex work request last month and had a meeting yesterday to discuss the outcome: I had proposed dropping down to 2 days, which just got rejected, with no opportunity...

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Mat leave and NHS pay.

Hey girls! Just wondering if anyone knows roughly what the mat pay is like as an NHS worker. I’m under the impression you get NHS mat pay on top of SMP, is this correct or am I just getting confused with it all? 😂🙈 If anyone has any information that would be fantastic!

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Staying at home

My partner & I have come to the decision that I will not be returning to work after maternity leave so I can solely look after our little one. My partner will financially cover everything which isn’t an issue for us but I’m wondering if there’s anything any other stay at home mums do as a kind of side hustle? I’m go...

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Do you watch porn?

Occasionally when I’m by myself I do as I can’t use my vibrator with nothing to watch, but after I always feel really horrible about it! I only watch normal porn as well. Why as a woman I feel so bad when I watch it?

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Insurance & Prenatal Care

I moved from out of state the first week of August, applied for Medi-Cal and got approved a few weeks ago. I had to call and get someone on the phone to choose a plan bc they insist on sending EVERYTHING via snail mail. Well I have finally been approved for Blue Shield and it goes into effect November the 1st. My pr...

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Free giveaways?

Anyone know any Leicester pages on socials or WhatsApp groups where people give away their stuff either for free or for a low price? Mainly maternity/baby things?

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