This sounds like an escalating situation. Situations like this don’t get better, they just keep getting worse. Your history with him shows that very clearly. You’ll also be living on eggshells, not just for yourself but for your daughter. You are her role model, what you allow is what she will see. My advice is be civil with the man but there’s no reason to be with him.
@destiny I know😞 it's sad that I'll even consider it but it's so hard finding a genuine man these days.
@Jessica Your right! It's just hard to be civil because he always wants to get intimate and it's hard to turn him down😮💨 it's only easy when we aren't talking or whatever.
You gotta stick strong to your will power, momma! Which is so much easier said than done, believe me, I know. But you don’t want this for yourself. I really hate when people say to me, “You deserve better.” I don’t know what I deserve, but I do know what I want. You have to ask yourself what you want for yourself and for your child. Be realistic. Do you want a man that felt okay to hit you? Do you want to give him the permission to forgive himself by letting him back into your space? One day you have to say enough is enough and for you and your little one, I hope it’s before he does worse to you.
Don’t. I kept going back and it just got worse, for me and my kids.
Given the situation I would steer clear of it. There’s no sure way to know that he wouldn’t do it again. Putting you and your baby in danger was not ok and he knew that there would be consequences to his actions and he still did it. Definitely forgive him so that your life is easier and I’m not saying he can’t change. But really consider his past actions and try to remember how you felt during that time. That’ll be important. I’m not telling you what to do but it doesn’t sound safe