@indiiii it really is. What would you do in my position?
I would stick to the name you chose! I had a still birth too. And to be honest, I wouldn’t be offended if any one used the name. Much less someone you hardly see. Is it an unusual name at all?
At the end of the day, it's the name you like. You had another girl for this reason, you didn't name your first this name and your second girl is your calling to imo 🤷🏻♀️
Personally, I wouldn’t use the name. Or at very least, I’d try and talk to the sister who planned on using it first and try to delicately sound them out x
Personally, if it’s my SIL’s sister whom I rarely ever see, that’s not a close enough relationship for me to worry about it. In your shoes I’d name her the name that I love ❤️
@Van it’s not unusual at all tbh, thanks for the advice :)
@Hannah ofc I do plan to talk to her before anything but I didnt want to have the conversation with her before getting some advice first
Chose the name you want regardless of others x
Yikes… that’s a tough one