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How is everyone coping with visitors?

I literally get so irritated when someone wants to come over (stress cried upstairs the other day), baby is one week old today and people (immediate family) come over try to wake him up or get annoyed that he’s not awake I’m like he sleeps 2-3 hours and is awake for about 45 mins… that is newborns! 😫

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"nesting" is just deep cleaning and never feeling satisfied😂

Anyone else feel like everything in the house is disgusting even if you deep clean every day?😂 I felt the same way when pregnant with my first child and it's so frustrating. I'm grateful that it's forcing me to get some type of physical activity, but it's so annoying to clean and still feel like you need to just…

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So lonely

I don’t know why I’m posting this. I just feel like I need to say it somewhere. I’m just so lonely & over the last couple of weeks it’s been weighing heavy. I was so social in my 20’s. I left a toxic relationship when I was 26, met someone new and moved to his town where I’d also secured a new job. But it’s only 4...

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Mama to a disabled child

I feel so lonely and isolated. Our son is medically complex, has cerebral palsy, and physically disabled. When I’m not working, most of my time is spent either caring for him, taking him to his numerous appointments, or caring for our other child. I have no one, but my husband, to talk to. Family members help, but I...

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Anyone else struggling?

Hey everyone! Is anyone else finding parenthood and life really hard right now? I honestly feel like no matter what i do, it isn’t good enough.. I’m really struggling with the fact my children are catching every single bug going, theres not a week when there isn’t something wrong with at least one of my children.....

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Guys help! What does this phrase mean?

‘ Also, there’s essentially no chance you’ll have to show proof you didn’t make a profit.’ I don’t get what no chance means?

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In need of a shoulder to cry on

I am an emotional wreck and have no one to talk to... are there lines I could call... I just need to talk to someone I have so much going on I will explode. I can't talk to family or any family members...anyone in the same ?

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Failed at making mum friends

Did you any else do all the baby groups but completely fail to make any mum friends? I wanted to make mum friends but am very interverted and struggled to make any. Most of the mums are leaving to go back to work now so I feel like I'm missed my opportunity, anyone had a similar experience?

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Long and lonely days

Does anyone wake up feeling like they have a long and lonely day ahead of them? I am so grateful for my daughter but obviously she can’t talk to me and is often moaning and crying at the moment so it can feel quite hard sometimes.

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Lonely & Sad

I’ve honestly never felt so lonely, sad & excluded from friendships groups & it’s always summer when it happens. No invites , no messages to go out or even visit. Nothing. Todays obviously the Euro’s I have childcare so it’s not even a thing - I’ve just seen a group photo of all the girls I was once included all out...

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😞

I recently lost my mom and more than ever I feel alone , lost without her 😔

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Need more Mum friends

Hi there, I’m a 22 year old FTM to an almost 2 year old now and I’m also actively trying to conceive my second child but I have become a lot more isolated and could really do with some mum friends as everyone who I thought was my friend has ghosted me or just sort of drifted away and now I don’t really talk to anyon...

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Single moms

Single moms with no village check in please 😓 I am tired of feeling so alone !!

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Feeling lost.

Is it normal to feel lost. Like I don’t know this feeling! I don’t do anything unless it’s with my baby and I’m finding that really difficult mostly because of statutory maternity and even just time 😭. Is anyone else feeling a bit not themselves recently?

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Help I just became a single mum

Guys I just broke up with my baby daddy and am looking for a friend / someone to cry to 😭 yes ik I’m desperate but ya girl is going through it, had to take my son to his grandparents just so I can cry tn lmao

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Going back to work

Woke up feeling really down thought of going back work isn’t because I don’t want to go back it’s more thought of not being present for my 4 children I enjoy being full time mum so much! I feel like when I work I’m not best mum I can be! Anyone else feel like this Im getting depressed just thinking about it! Jugglin...

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Feeling confused and lost

Any one else feels confused and lost like you don’t know who you are anymore? I’m 4 months pp and I feel like I can’t recognize myself. My body doesn’t look the same, my clothes I don’t like, I don’t know what I want anymore outside of being a mom, and I feel weird looking at pictures and videos of me. It’s causing ...

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What do you think about people who are struggling and don't like your suggestions

But you know better because you have experience and they just want to stay stuck in their ways

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Alone and never liked

All my life I have been disliked and bullied at school at home most of times I wonder what I have done wrong to deserve this I would help anyone. Now I’m 34 and very alone I’m the tag along friend never the main friend I have never had a best friend my first boyfriend I got with cheated on me stole my money then my ...

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No ‘ Village ‘

Hi guys hope all is well! Just wanted some tips for a first time mom who has no family or friends nearby!! I’m going crazy and feeling so sad these days. My partners family is toxic and couldn’t give two shits about us and I don’t even want their help.. and my family live in another country. It’s just SOOO hard caus...

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