Alone and never liked

All my life I have been disliked and bullied at school at home most of times I wonder what I have done wrong to deserve this I would help anyone. Now I’m 34 and very alone I’m the tag along friend never the main friend I have never had a best friend my first boyfriend I got with cheated on me stole my money then my now husband puts me down calls me names and is awful to me. when I try talk to my in-laws she rolls her eyes or ignores me. I don’t know what to do anymore I am alone only person I had was my mum and she passed 6 years ago. I I am never going to be liked school mums blank me as well one mum her son was bullying son after I told school she now gives me dirty looks shouts st me in the street on top of everything else I just feel like giving up what’s the point this isn’t living I’m jealous of people with friends and families 😭

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I would recommend counseling as you need to have a better opinion of yourself. You should not allow people to treat you like this but if you don't see how special you are then no one else will. I have always had trouble making friends and it does get me down. After counseling I realized that some people are just shit and I need to rely on other people's opinions a lot less. What I think of me is more important. People will treat you how you let them treat you. People can't be horrible and selfish but that doesn't make you any less of a person. I hope you can get some help to help you with this. If you want to direct message me I will be good with that xx

it's ok to not be ok, get some help and you aren't suffering alone, there's alot of women suffering in silence. but that's why us mummas are here to support eachother

Hi, I could have wrote this post. The only difference is, I have a supportive hubby. So sorry your going through this. I think it happens alot. Your be surprised just how much other mums don't tell you. Focus on yourself rather than others. Speak your mind rather than holding it inwards. I think I am just too nice and people take advantage of that. I also think I try too hard and that puts people off. Your definitely not alone in this. My distance friend was going thru something similar she also went to councilling and said it helped her not to care about others as much.

Would you like to talk . I get the world can be so nasty at times . I think self reflection is needed here . What do I do that rubs people up the wrong way? No ones everybody’s cup of tea. Also if people treat me bad I don’t need to be around them . Focusing on doing the things which make you happy

@Jay I’m autistic I don’t understand people

@Sarah your lucky you have a husband I can’t afford a councillor and I have autism

I've been bullied all my life, hounded at school and picked on by relatives and in relationships. Had to work to get my basic grades in education etc etc I'm 38 and have two sons who are my world. I don't have many friends as they have used me and let me down too over the years 🙂 sometimes less is more. Even if you're no-one's best friend a friend is better than having no-one

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