Community Posts, Tips & Support on Pregnancy Loss

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We did it!

After two miscarriages and a myomectomy, we finally got the result we wanted! These past couple years have been a whirlwind of emotions, from hope to fear to despair and everything in between. But I can finally say we’re pregnant! I know we have a long way to go, as today is the first day of my missed period, but I...

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How soon did you try again?

How soon after miscarriage did you try again for another baby? I want to aim for the next 2 or 3 months

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Ttc after miscarriage

My baby was born sleeping on 15th June at 16w 6d It has been just over a month since, i still haven’t gotten my period yet but we are doing the deed. is it still possible to conceive if i don’t get my period? I know it might take a little longer for my period since i was bit further in my pregnancy whats the longe...

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First period after miscarriage

I’ve got my first perfiod post miscarriage and I’ve been bleeding now for 11 nearly 12 days. Has anyone else bled for this long with their first period? Did you find that this cycle was longer and did you still ovulate?

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TTC after late miscarriage

Just over a month ago now my pregnancy journey came to an end at 16w 6d due to pProm and lead me to having surgery to remove remaining placenta tissue We are ttc but im still waiting for my first period Can i still get pregnant without getting my first period or will i not be ovulating right now?

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How long after natural miscarriage did you ovulate?

Hi ladies, I am wondering for those who got pregnant straight away do you know how long from when you passed the tissue to when you ovulated? I had a natural miscarriage 3weeks ago and I also have PCOS but I am wondering how long after the bleeding stopped or when you passed most of the tissue to when you first ovu...

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When did you get your period?

Currently going through my second miscarriage and just wondering when I should expect my period? My first was a MMC at 10 weeks and I didn’t have a period for 5 months after due to retained placenta from a failed D&C. I’m 6+5 this time round when it started. Would like to start trying relatively soon but unsure how ...

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Third time lucky

Two pregnancies, two miscarriages, is this my third time lucky?

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PLEASE HELP- I went to the ER yesterday at 6 weeks 5 days due to some spotting

They did an ultrasound and found a heartbeat of 118bpm. They told me that’s on the lower side and it could result in miscarriage. My cervix is still closed though so they said it also just may be too soon to tell and to come back next week. Has anyone ever experienced their baby having a low heart rate/bpm and had a...

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Recurrent miscarriages

Hi ladies, I had three miscarriages and had an ivf treatment and just found out I’m pregnant 🌈I’ve called my GP last week and they said nothing to do and just sent me a link to register my pregnancy and then I got a reply from midwife that I will have a scan in October!!!! I thought I will get more support after…

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Threatened miscarriage

I went to the hospital in the wee hours of the morning due to light spotting and light cramping. They ran tests and did a pelvic ultrasound. Doc looked at my cervix and said it was closed like I'm pregnant but my numbers were at like 57. He said it could be 3 things. A miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy or that we ...

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2nd ectopic pregnancy

Last May I had a ectopic pregnancy, treated with methotrexate, chemical pregnancy in March , now my 2nd ectopic pregnancy, stuck in my right tube, it’s been removed via surgery this time. I just don’t know what to say anymore. I can’t believe it’s happened again. Has anyone had 2 ectopic pregnancies?

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Petition urging the Government to formally count every miscarriage.

For those who haven't already seen I thought this was worth sharing here. https://actions.tommys.org/a/record-of-baby-loss?utm_campaign=Everyone%20else%20-%20Stylist%20campaign%20launch%20haven%27t%20signed%20Handraiser&utm_content=add_your_name_button_1&utm_term=&utm_medium=email&utm_source=adestra

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I’m having a miscarriage

I’m having a miscarriage and have been bleeding for 4 days but no tissue has passed yet. I am 6 weeks along. Do I just wait?

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Hey girls

When did you alll have a period after your miscarriage? How long did it take

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TW- possible miscarriage

I should be 9w today but after after my appointment yesterday I'm not sure what to think. There was no heart beat, but there was fetal pole and sag. She said it looked like I was 6 weeks. My heart sank but my doctor wanted me to get my HGC levels tested. I got them back today and they were over 95,000. I'm going bac...

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Pregnant again or remaining HCG?

I had a miscarriage which was finished 3 weeks ago (confirmed via scan 3 weeks tomorrow that there was nothing left in my uterus) This morning I decided to take a test a got a faint line. Since there was nothing in my uterus 3 weeks ago and the loss was a very early one about 4/5 weeks would I still have HCG in my...

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TW!!

TW - - - - - - I think im having a miscarriage, im not sure and neither was the er. i started heavy bleeding at 5am and it stopped abruptly, i also passed a clot that was kinda big. The ER said the ultrasound came back fine and the baby had a heartbeat but im spotting now. Idk what to do

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Miscarriage

Has anyone had a miscarriage at home? I had a miscarriage yesterday and I just feel so hurt & depressed. I was estimated 11weeks. I will possibly get a d&c next Monday. Just looking for advice/ answers to my question. How long did cramping last/bleeding? How did you mentally go on? If you got a d&c was it painful?

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3weeks pregnant

Hey! Just found out 3 days ago I’m pregnant again after going through a miscarriage last month. My anxiety is so bad & I’m constantly worrying the same thing is going to happen. Is anyone else the same? 🩷

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