Miscarriage
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I’ve had 3 miscarriages before I had my first baby. The last one was in October 22. I was about 13 weeks. I was devastated honestly, my now ex husband was over seas and had left when I was only a few weeks pregnant. So I was alone to deal with it. The bleeding lasted about 9 days as far as I remember. I passed the placenta and everything at home in the middle of the night after 3 days of bleeding. The cramping only lasted a day and a half after that.
I've had 4 miscarriages. My cradling wasn't bad, but that's mostly due to my high pain tolerance. I've had a D&C. My bleeding lasted around a week. And my mental state was mostly avoidance. I had a baby before any of my miscarriages. I didn't have the option for a mental break down. My child needed me
I’m sorry for your loss, I had a d&c because of no heart beat at 10weeks full anesthesia felt nothing, unfortunately it happened at home prior to my appointment so it was very painful and traumatizing
I had my miscarriage around 8 weeks and I bled about 5/6 days pretty heavily. Mentally…it’s hard for a while but you will heal. Something that helped me was I got a physical momento. It was my evidence that that baby was here and existed. And also knowing that their dna lives in me forever ❤️