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I want another baby...37

I really want another baby. I am 37, so I need to make moves, so to speak and get off bc. I hear/see people say having babies in your late 30s is impossible and hard. Is anyone here a late 30s mom and/or currently pregnant around this age? Willing to give advice? For context, my youngest is 5.

Incognito
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Does it bug you?

Does it bug you when someone posts a "is it positive or line eyes" for pregnancy tests when the test clearly shows a positive... coloured, dark line etc. Like, I get it when the test is vvvvf or the line looks odd or whatever, but when it is very clearly a BFP... I just personally don't get it, just post saying "yay...

Incognito
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Vvfl?

Had a chemical a few months ago and it’s been tough trying since. I keep seeing rainbows this week and so I’ve been hopeful that maybe that means something and I took a test, thought I maybe saw something, took another, and now not sure. I don’t have my hopes up or anything because I do have a habit of seeing things...

Incognito
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How many babies / when are you trying next?

Hi! Just a question for fun! How many babies do you all want & when do you think y’all would be ready to start trying again?

Incognito
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IVF wait time - Buckinghamshire??

Hi, I have just been referred for ivf funding with the nhs in bucks. From peoples experience, how long does it for funding to be approved & to actually start the process? Thanks 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Incognito
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positive or evap???

when i first took the test i saw a very very faint line but thought if was an evap as it hadnt had colour, 2 hours later this is what it looks like now im stressing if its negative or positive😅😅iv always been told evaps have no colour

Incognito
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Baby number 2!

Is anyone else thinking of trying for another baby? How do we feel about this x

Incognito
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Do you see it too?

Only 7dpo and this was after 4 minutes. I think that’s a positive 😅

A
2
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Bfn, is there still hope?

I tested this morning, and it was a bfn. 😕 Is there still hope that I will get my bfp? Or should I just accept AF is going to show her ugly face soon.

Incognito
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Single working mums, how are you doing it?

Hey! I’ve got a 3 year old and I’ve just split up with his dad. How do you cope financially?? His dad will probably move back to England and I doubt he’ll be giving me any sort of child maintenance. I’m a social worker so on okay money, just worried about the logistics of nursery payments and everything else.

Incognito
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Baby number 3

Hi everyone! I always envisioned myself having 4 children and I welcomed my second child in February this year. I’m 32 years old and I’m wondering how I could possibly handle a third. I also have an almost 3 year old . I’m a sahm and very dedicated to my kids but I’m so tired. I don’t know whether to grow my family...

Incognito
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Positive?

This photo was taken within the 3 minute wait time. I don’t know how many dpo I am as I don’t test for ovulation. But it’s an early detection test & my period is due in 4 days. Also had spotting yesterday hence taking the test.

Incognito
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Message after giving birth for family and friends

How did you politely say that you don't want visitors straight away?

Incognito
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Easy @ home tests

Is this positive or do I just have line eyes? I’m really hoping this is it for us!🤞

Incognito
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Positive??

So I don’t normally take blue dye test but it was the only one the store had. The line is really faint and hard to get a picture with my phone if it so these are the best I have if it. It showed up about a minute after I peed on it as well. Photos taken in time frame as well. I did change 2 of the phots in the check...

Incognito
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Is this normal

First response shows two line and the digital says no even clearblue says not pregnant. Not sure if the first response is giving me false positive

D
1
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12DPO!🫶🏻🥹✨

12DPO today! 4 days since I got my first positive at 8DPO. Lines are progressing nicely😍tomorrow I go to the hospital for my bloods doing to monitor my HCG levels! Is anyone else 12DPO or in their TWW?🤷🏻‍♀️🫶🏻✨

L
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2 week wait anxiety

How many DPO should you start testing after TTC? I’m anxious and eager to start testing but I don’t want to start testing too early

B
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9dpo still negative

I think I’m going crazy for this TWW😩 tested twice today 9dpo and still negative 😞😞

C
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Low platelets count ?

Anyone has low platelets count ? Between 85 and 100 ? What does your doctor think ? What type of delivery did you decide ? My numbers have gone down from 109 to 95 in a week and I am very nervous about a higher risk of getting PPH again ( I got it in my first delivery)

Incognito
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