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Self employed maternity leave

Has anyone got any advice? I have been waiting for an answer for 2 months. I’ve been awarded the minimum amount £27/week 😵‍💫 but hoping now that I’ve paid my Nat insurance it will increase. Can’t seem to get through to anyone on the dwp line and it’s really stressing me out.

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Fakers

Yall just be bored but some of us are truly lonely. I don’t get to talk to adults especially female 🤦🏻‍♀️ I have all boys and my husband and his gpa #sendangels

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Mum friends

Hey, I'm 31 and had my baby girl in august. Im currently on maternity leave until next July and quite bored so im looking for others to meet up with. Can be just for a tea/coffee, walk, group, etc. im based in Arnold but can get to Sherwood & Mapperley. I do drive but prefer not to. Please comment & I'll message you...

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I made a mistake

My BD and I were trying to work things out, I moved away and we have been spending time together with our son trying to fix things. My birthday was earlier this month(13th) and we went on a camping trip while I was ovulating… we had sex multiple times and it was unprotected. He has now decided we aren’t going to to ...

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Changing jobs ready for school

I currently work shifts which means working every other weekend, at the moment it works great for us as our childcare fees are more than half the cost I don't want to be working shifts when she starts school next year, but I change jobs now (days roles are quite rare) it would be a drop in salary and obviously a fu...

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Mat leave and Universal Credit

Is it poss to apply for universal credit while on mat leave. I know once I go down to half pay I will struggle and wanted to see if I can claim some sort of benefits to help top me up.

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Starting a WhatsApp group for Muslim mums in London

What do you guys think about the idea? Would anyone actually join?

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Mom Friends!

Hi ladies! Anyone interested in becoming new friends? Near or far, I’m open but I’m in North Texas by the way!

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What are you most self conscious about

This can be from childhood or something you have recently noticed yourself feel conscious about

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I’ve been shortlisted for a job I’d really like which would also be a massive opportunity and pay rise. It’s on 1st Nov so I’ll be 38+5 and I have to do a ten min presentation and a 40 minute test.

Ive never had to do a presentation to a panel of people before and I am not good at public speaking - I am really glad it’s on teams as it feels a tad less scary - but please please could I have some tips on how to get through this lol? Tips on how to do a good first ever presentation and also get into the mindset o...

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Is Carobel prescription only?

My HV said I can buy some to try it out and then get it prescribed if it works but in Boots today I was told it’s prescription only? Is it possible to buy to over the counter or do I need to get it prescribed by my GP?

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Midwife appointments and work

So this morning I had a normal midwife appointment it’s about 45 minutes and I come back to work right after. I typically like to grab lunch across the road and then eat in the office. My boss has moaned at me saying if I’m going to take time out of work for appointments I need to bring lunch to work and eat while ...

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Group chat

Does anyone wanna be in a iMessage group chat?? Great group of ladies!!!!

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Group chat

Does anyone want to be in a iMessage group chat?? Good vibes

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How do you serve the frozen mix veg?

Hey mamas Could you pls advice me on how to serve the frozen mix veg (carrot,beans & peas). I cooked them in butter last time and the peas went rock solid. Lol Do you steam them in the microwave or boil them and then mix it with butter. Please advice. Thanks 😊

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Texting buddies?

Hiya I’m a FTM to a 5mo and looking for a texting buddy🤣🩷

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Maternity leave/pay

If I was to inform my employer that I will not be returning to work when my maternity leave ends will they stop paying me my maternity pay immediately? Or will I be entitled the full amount? I have no idea how it all works to be honest. They have also said I have accumulated holidays, can I take this holiday pay now...

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Maternity allowance

Does anyone know if you can claim anything more than maternity allowance and child benefit? For reference I am claiming self employed maternity allowance, my partner is working but we aren’t married and he isn’t down on the maternity allowance paperwork so I’m guessing it wouldn’t be affected by him working. Compa...

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Flexible working-part time and WFH

Has anyone requested to work from home one day per week when returning to work? I’m requesting to work 3 days per week when going back to work, however there is an option to request wfh too. I really want to wfh 1 out of the 3 days. How do I justify this when employer ask?

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Gyms

Dies anyone know any good gym even ones that you can take babies with

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