Hate myself

Lately I find myself wondering how nice and easy my life would be without my 5 month old baby. I am constantly thinking about my baby, when I go out I miss her, I love holding her, seeing her. But then I wonder do I even love her if I find myself wondering about easy life without her. Can anyone relate? I am so lost
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Oh honey your feelings are valid and you’re allowed to feel them! And of course life would be so much easier without children they are a fucking handful , needy little shits lol. Being a new mom is HARD your brain IS NOT the same, you’re going through a lot learning the new ways of life which can be challenging, finding sleep schedules and finding time for yourself. Sooner than later I hope things start feeling better for you soon, and if you need help please continue doing what you’re doing and reach out , it only shows how much you do love her.

Very relatable! High highs and low lows

@Mahayla thank you. It took me a minute to reach out as I was scared of judgement but I realized I need support. I really appreciate your words, it helps ☺️

You definitely aren’t alone. I think most of us struggle way more than we like to admit.

You’re not alone! All the time I think of how easy it used to be to just wake up and put sneakers on and walk outside with my dog. But now baby’s gotta eat, get changed at least once, check the weather to make sure she’s comfy, put on the ergo baby or set up the stroller, clip on the pacifier….THEN put my sneakers on and walk the dog. It was a million times easier!

@Julie ikr. Just put your sneakers, grab your tiny bag and leave. And now the planning it requires just to step out for 30 mins, I could work for planning the next US elections thats how much it takes

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