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What Village

I normally hate complaining, and rarely do, but I am so freaking tired. Been a single parent since my baby was 5 months (She’s now 4), and I have no Village, no support, no breaks, no nights out, no life, no friends, just work, school pickup/drop offs, working overtime to keep up with bills, sleep, repeat. I feel l...

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Friendship wanted

Hi everyone! ☺️ I’m a first time mum to my boy who is is 3 years old, I’m 23 this December and I’m looking for some friends, I have lost all my friends so I’m really lonely and needing someone to be my best friend again 🥺 I feel like I’m loosing myself and all I am is a mother 😅 Send help 😂

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Looking for encouragement

Feeling down at recently turning 43

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Newborn struggle

Anyone else feel really trapped and alone right now? We’re 16 days old and very hard work. My partner is now back at work and I feel so lost

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Does anyone actually care

Like its a Good question i just i cant rn im at my low trying to be strong for baby but theres just so much wrong with my life rn and i litterally have not one soul on this earth on my side rn I went to talk to someone about it and got told "your a mom why do you need to talk to someone like focus on your family" an...

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Advice

My mind cannot stop thinking of the worst possible things/intrusive thoughts - is there a way to manage this that has helped anyone? Thanks in advance

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Craving being alone….

Do you ever crave being alone? Like just you - no baby, no hubby? I literally day dream about solitude sometimes and feel bad because I prayed for this life I have now - but there’s times I just want to be by myself.

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Anyone else get no help?

My daughter is 19 months and is in the tantrum phase of life. I am at wits end with everything honestly. When I say I get no help, i genuinely mean it. I have no friends near me as they have either moved away or lost contact with me. I live 5 hours away from all family. I don't need help all the time, but god man,...

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question

is it bad that i'd love to have some mom freinds but i find it hard to actually connect.. i had friends before i had my babies but they are all gone now and i feel so lonely..any other moms feel the same way ?

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Crazy

So I’m finally will be moving away from my abusive partner but is it weird I feel so sad I have such a big heart I’m hurt because I know he has no where to go and no family for help but I have to do what’s best for me and my son ( I’m tired of him hitting me and arguing with me calling me all types of names and etc.)

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Friendships

Hiya girls - I’m looking for some advice & to use this as abit of an outlet. I’m 30 weeks with my first baby & you always here a lot of things about being lonely the first few years of having your baby and I can honestly say I’m really really worried of feeling alone. I have a wonderful family support network ar...

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Mums who meet from here ?

Morning glory 😁😁😁 like most, I was advised to join this app for friendship and advice. Advice is brilliant. But has anyone found since they have fallen pregnant, they have lost some friends and family along the way, feeling a little bit lonely? I am a full-time social worker, so I work hard during the week and…

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I miss him lol

How do y’all survive no contact ???😭💔

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Who else feels like not having a "village" is the worst rn?:(

I think I just need to say it, I feel like no one cares anymore. I feel like life in general is harder and more sad even than it was 10/20/30 years ago. There is no help. I hate it. This is not a job for one. But I also get it. I mean if I didn't have this life how much would I really give up to help someone else ei...

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Help - are other people experiencing this?

My little one is 2 years 7 months. Although able to settle alone, they suddenly need me again to fall asleep. It's all 'mummy, mummy' and not wanting anything to do with dad, following me around as if I'm going to disappear (he does go to full time childcare). Is this a phase? Will it continue to be me me me?

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Lonely with a 14 month old baby girl 🥺

Hey, I’m going to post anonymously on this one, how do you stop feeling so lonely when you’ve got a nearly 15 month old 🥺 I feel I’ve got no one to talk too while everyone else is at work during the day.. someone shine some light please 🩷 xx

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adapting to change with family

Hi mums ✨ a bit of a vent… Has anyone not had a great relationship with family before having a bubba? now all of a sudden , you have family grilling you about not hearing or seeing your child?? … ive lived on my own since 15. my parents would barely ever (almost never) contact me & constantly felt i was the fail...

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Feeling lonely 🙁

Why is it so lonely being a mum. Is it me?

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I just want to be alone.. like for 3 months.

I deal with anxiety and depression. Being a mom and a wife is mentally draining. I wish I could leave for a month when I need. It's difficult to know thats not an option as a mom, because it's not good for baby or my finances.

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Anyone else.

Anyone else’s bd just leave because they be got the wrong end of the stick and their friends stark your Facebook so they’ve ended things with you for no reason other than them being stupid and misunderstood the situation. So now my whole life complelty has fallen through and I feel like utter shite because alls I wa...

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