Advice and support

So today I found out I’m pregnant again, I was pregnant this time last year as well but the day of my first doctor’s appointment we found out there was no heartbeat and I was miscarrying. I had already lost the embryo but the gestational sac was still growing, this is called a blight pregnancy. They gave me the option of having it surgically removed or passing the sac by myself, just let my body do its job. I went with letting my body do its job and I miscarried the rest of the sac about 2 weeks later a few days before Christmas. I say all of this to say, although I’m excited about being pregnant, I’m scared out of my mind that it’s going to be the same thing or just miscarry in general. Last time we told our family and friends and it was devastating having to relive it every time I saw someone I’d told we were expecting. Having to tell them I was no longer pregnant. So this time my husband & I have decided to wait until we’re in the “safe zone” to tell family and friends. I’m just wondering if any other Mamas can relate and if you have any advice as to how I can try to stay positive and be happy about this new pregnancy.