Overreacting?
My partner, not only does he constantly give the excuse of: “you’re at work so I don’t call you all day-YET he knows my schedule.” But today calls and says that he has another of his migraines (which I understand is painful) and he might be snappy at me when he gets home. So I ask him if I should go home or stay at my parents house, he responds: “oh, I’d like you come home but I might be alittle idk 🤷🏻♂️ .” Of course I don’t want to go home and be a punching bag for him. Then he backtracks and apologizes but I already said I’ll stay home and put our daughter to bed.
Honestly I think that was good communication on his part, he informed you he has a migraine and that he'll be snappy. So you know what to expect Now I don't know what "snappy" looks like for him, in my experience, it just means slightly off. A migraine does not give him an excuse to use you as a punching bag...