House work

I get my bf works 5 days a week, I understand he’s tired. I do only work 2 days a week (saturday and monday) and i’m pretty tired after those days. The other days i’m home with our son. Being a stay at home mom is exhausting, some days I would rather be at work standing on my feet for 8 hours straight. We have a schedule that whoever works puts our son to bed and the other cleans up our sons mess. But other than that the rest of the chores are suppose to be up to either or to do. Im doing most of the house work, if not all of it. Even when he’s suppose to clean up our sons mess, he doesn’t fully do it. He picks the toys up but he does sweep the floors, fix the pillows on the couch. Even when I ask him if he’ll clean up after supper, he puts the lefts overs away and put the dishes in the sink. He doesn’t clean the counters or put the few things away I left out, or even wash the dishes. Most times I clean up the mess as I cook so I promise it’s never anything crazy. He also never does laundry. He’ll do one part of the laundry but I have to do the rest. Even if I ask him to take it upstairs he just plops it on the bed and moves it to my desk when he’s going to bed. He never folds or puts it away. We’ve talked about it a thousand times, I got fed up and started an arguement the last few times, and I even stopped doing anything for him but he didn’t care. Last time I finally broke and did all the laundry and it was 8 loads yall, 6 were his. Our sons stuff always got done, I never let it interfere with my sons clothes, room, toys, life, etc. Idk what else i’m suppose to do. I’ve told him that I feel like he’s my second child and that it’s even affecting my want to have sex with him and he still doesn’t care. We have sex maybe twice a month. I feel like my only other option is the leave him at this point. He’s clearly showing me he doesn’t care but I know it’ll break my sons heart. My bf isn’t a good bf but he’s a damn good dad, i’ll give him that. Idk what to do anymore. I’m just so done and checked out