Try hand expression and manual pumps it takes time but I usually get the most that way. My baby takes a sippy cup so I starting putting milk there and recently when empty giving water as I was ebf at night it took about a week but my 1yr is off at night only working on getting fully off but one step at a time
Straw cup with water? You can always just let daddy do bedtime one day a week and let him figure out his own way.
she does take sippy cups but when it’s time to sleep nap or bed she throws a scream match and throws everything we give to her 😭
Just give it a try. My son prefers to bf to sleep, but his dad has the magic touch. Even without milk, his strong chest, and what I assume are some very boring stories, knock our boy out in 15 minutes or less. It saves me 2 hours of nonsense per night. If it doesn't work now, try again once every month or so. It's worth it!