Miscarrying

i’m unfortunately in the process of miscarrying with my 2nd baby. i’ve never experienced something so traumatic, both physically and emotionally, in my life and idk how to feel. part of me didn’t want another baby, i wasn’t sure if i was ready, but now that i’m miscarrying i feel disgusting for ever feeling that way. does anyone have any tips on how to manage pain wise? i’m at the point where i’m passing large blood clots that are uncomfortable, as well as contracting. ps: maybe also tips on how to get blood stains out of denim.. i absolutely massacred my favourite pair of jeans on my hour drive home💔

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Baking soda for the jeans I think 🤔 I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't take pain killers very often so I had a heating pad and a lot of advil and it worked for me. The pain should only last a few days and for me it came in waves so sometimes it was brutal and others it was nothing. My advice, easier said than done esp in the moment, is to be kind to yourself. You may not have thought you were ready and there is no shame in that. You want the best for your babies and that's a sign of a wonderful mother. Being unsure is ok. You were willing to keep that baby despite those feelings and all of that is separate from the devastation of a miscarriage. You'll need time to heal physically and emotionally. Try to give that to yourself. Happy to listen if you need to vent. I've been there and I'm sorry you've joined this club 💔

@Anna👼👶👼👼 thank you so much❤️‍🩹 it’s just so weird to think that two days ago i was dreading the idea of another baby, especially with my little guy only being a year, and now they’re gone. i honestly don’t think i’ve ever been through such a traumatic experience. i’ve never felt pain like this in my life, both physically and emotionally. i’m so caught in the middle of how i feel about everything. part of me is numb, the other part is grieving. it’s just so.. weird. i’ll definitely try out baking soda for my jeans, ngl i sobbed because i literally bought them yesterday and they were like $50💀 and ill try out a heating pad for sure!! advil seemed to work pretty well for me, so i’ll be keeping that handy as well. but seriously, thank you SO much for your kind words, it really means a lot. i am also so SO sorry for your loss as well💔 i never understood just how draining and traumatic this really is. i thought it was just some cramping and small clots, but i realized now how wrong i was❤️‍🩹

@Caidy you're welcome 🙏 it is a really hard thing to go through because you're physically and emotionally recovering and it will hit you at different times. Hang in there 💕 I hope you feel more yourself soon

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