is this passive aggressive to yall?

“This is really hard for me to say but I feel like I need to talk to you not only as your boss but as your friend. I really do love and care about you and *daughter’s name*. There’s a few things that are concerning that I don’t think anyone else is going to tell you. I think if you really tried to get her on a schedule and stuck to it for three or four days it would help a lot even if it means keeping her up during the day so she will sleep at night. Also you really aren’t supposed to be smoking weed while breastfeeding it can hurt her seriously. The thc can stay in your milk for 6 days and could be a big reason why she’s fussy. I know you’re a good mom and you love her but I don’t think you and *husbands name* knew how it was really going to be. It’s hard but you gotta just push through. All of this will pass before you know it. You’ll blink and she’ll be running around the house and it’ll get better but there’s things that would really help now make things easier for both you and *husbands name*. *husbands name* works so hard to take care of yall and he loves you and *daughters name*so much and I think sometimes your hard on him. I mean this in the best ways possible and I hope you take it how I mean it as a friend. No judgement or mom shame at all just as someone who cares about yall. I know I wouldn’t want to hear this on my end either but sometimes you gotta hear what you need to hear.” ((((this was a no context out of nowhere text i got from my friend who ended up buying the place we work at so now she’s my boss. she bought it while i was on maternity leave and she has a daughter 9 months younger than mine. her sister is my best friend and also works with us. i had told her sister earlier in the day that my daughter was fussy last night and nothing really helped she just wanted to be held and watch tv. she’s 6m. the boss/friend has also made multiple remarks to me in the past about how she’s concerned about me but my daughter has only had maybe a handful of bad nights. she’s a dream baby, never cries or anything. her daughter on the other hand was a crier and still is. i don’t know if she’s projecting or what but i’m so done with her bs. i’m grateful to my husband but she left hers not even two weeks ago and came back the same week. okay i’m too hard on mine😂 what do yall think??)))))