Would you say the video games is a problem? Playing every night or whenever he has any free time? The reason I ask is because my partner was addicted to playing video games. He literally had no time for family and would make every excuse under the sun to not get out of playing. (He has a very important match he cant miss or he has a planned game with the guys that's really important) Family time was half arsed. I took drastic measures after having conversation after conversation with him but nothing changing and left him. After 3 months, he promised to change and we got back together, he is a completely changed man that was 5 years ago. I'm not saying leave him, but sometimes they need a push or something drastic to happen for things to change.
We are very happy now. He's an amazing present husband and father xx
I have the same problem. Atleast he cleans sometimes, is making the dishes, cooks or is doing the laundry. But in the situation with our daughter - no. I could never sleep a whole night like him or just a nap alone in the afternoon or just taking a shower or being outside whenever I want. It’s really tiring with men like this… I can just give you the advice to be more clear about that. Tell him that he’s not a babysitter, he wanted to become a father so he needs to take the same responsibility. If it’s not working tell him maybe you need to live alone so you are less stressed.