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@Rachel we never take it out the night before. I’ve never heard of that
Chicken needs to thaw properly before eating it & it usually takes 24 hours to thaw properly. Otherwise, you risk getting food poisoning.
Y’all are missing the point. More fixated on the chicken not thawed 🤣😭 da fuck?! We never thawed chicken that way My point was cooking after his blowout of bitching for over an hour
@Rachel we’ve never done it that way and never got sick. I’ve never heard of thawing chicken that way
I can't really help you with the other thing. You still have to eat whether he is in a mood or not 🤷♀️
@Rachel not really. I go days without eating 🤷🏼♀️ I’m hardly ever hungry and I have a child to keep up with 24:7
He definitely shouldn’t be treating you or your child that way. Have you talked to him about how he’s treating you? Or maybe suggest couples counseling. If no to the second option, I guess you just have to decide what you want. Whether that’s to stay and deal with his behavior if he won’t correct himself or leave. You’re NTA in my opinion. You were just starting to get out the chicken. Don’t see why he’d cop an attitude about that
@Destiny I e been secretly looking into leaving. It’s complicated and having a child only complicates it more but I agree. Regardless of a bad day or not, we didn’t deserve to be screamed at. I’ve tried to get him to go to counseling both with me or on his own and he won’t. He bitched that I don’t cook (not that he ever wants me to either) but he gets home from work at 2:45/3PM and who wants dinner that early? So then he says “I don’t expect you to have dinner ready that early but offer once in awhile” yet constantly says how he doesn’t mind cooking. Contradicts himself yet says I do all the time 🥴 I’m just confused about what to do anymore because nothing pleases him! Thank you for your feedback and support. I appreciate it 💜
I get but I grew up with my mom and dad acting like your husband. And I wish I would’ve been seperated from that kind of life. All that matters is your baby, and if you’d be safer or just even have a better quality of life I’d leave. Because no one deserves that. It’s just manipulation and control. I hope you get the happiness you deserve 💛
@Destiny thank you! 💜💜💜 I couldn’t agree more. He grew up that way and loves it now. No matter what I say or ask. He’ll never change
Surely you should have taken the chicken out the night before to thaw? And I mean either one of you, not you personally.